I am 34 year old in love with a 22 year old boy. can our marriage succeed?

Question

I am 34 year old in love with a 22 year old boy. can our marriage succeed?

Answer 1

If age is the matter then dont worry coz age has nothing to do with that

all the best...

Answer 2

12 years ain't so bad

Answer 3

only time will tell... age has nothing to do with it... it is the people involved!!!

[but referring to him as a BOY, isn't a really good start... and he'll resent the implications... and will think you are deliberately trying to end the relationship on the basis of age!!!]

Answer 4

I think it will work out ok

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Answer 5

Age really has nothing to do with marriage, it usually depends on whether or not you can support each other through life, no matter what happens. If you know what you can do that, then any marriage will succeed. It's is questionable why you would call him a "boy" though.  

Answer 6

An age difference in a relationship doesn't mean a thing, if you're both grown up. (And I don't mean age wise) . If you're both settled in your life and ready to be committed to each other, then the age difference should not matter. If either one of you thinks the age difference is a problem, then you might want to reconsider your relationship.

Answer 7

i really doubt it.

I mean if u both really love each other & r comfortable with each other, then u both ll' surely form a sweet couple.

but let me remind u that ur age difference is more than 10 years which u bvoth ll' on surely feel on the bed. And later on this cud become a big reason for ur hubby to try out some new ladies.

you r mature enough to take ur decisions, so best of luck..

Answer 8

there  always is a chance for everything. Only god can tell what will happen in the future. If ya all are really serious then anything can happen  

Answer 9

If you cheated on your partner would you tell them or not?

Answer 10

Probably not. You referred to him as a boy of 22. When he is legally a man. This means you think of him as a child, he must have a trait that you consider child like for you to refer to him that way. Think about it. I had a man 12 years younger than I for about 2 years. I knew early on that he was too young for me because the things he was going through, I had been there and could only mother him through his problems. It became tiring after a while and I longed for someone older to share my current events with. He could not relate to the things I was going through and I considered him a mature person for his age; however, the May/December relationship could not prevail. He had no solid career or education when we met; however, he did when we parted. So, I felt good about helping my friend not the lover.  

Answer 11

Definitely, you are at the same life- stages i.e. you are able to have a family together, so I hope you have a happy future.

Answer 12

If it is true love , then yes there is definitely a chance that you marriage will succeed ., but if he gets sidetracked by some other hot body and strays then there is not much hope . Again though if he truly loves you , you have nothing to worry about .

Answer 13

For short term,yes but probably not long term, especially when you hit the higher ages, the younger generation may be more appealing to him and vice versa in that you may soon want an older and more mature guy especially when it comes to communications. But for now,none of this really matters so enjoy it for as long as it lasts

Answer 14

Yes I don't see why not, I married my husband he asked me.

He is 9 yr.s  younger but no one can tell the difference.He's a tall handsome big man.I am tiny with everything in the right place a little

top heavy but he loves them.I keep myself young and take care of myself

everyone tells me I still look the same when I was 20 so keep your self young take care of your body hair skin and teeth.Don't get fat let your hair grow down to your waisted workout and be limper and flexible in bed know how to be a great  cook keep the house clean work to to get ahead keep him happy go out with him all dressed up not in rags But make him proud he has a beautiful wife on his arm

and he will never leave You!!      

Answer 15

Well, since you just refered to him as a "boy", I doubt it.

Sounds more like a plaything than a life partner.

If you really loved each other, nobody's opinion counts.

I fail to understand why you are asking unless you aren't sure yourself.

Good luck!

Answer 16

You gave the answer. 22 year old BOY. If he is a boy, no it won't last. For heaven's sake, marry someone your age. The country you are in, has this fashion going on right now to sleep with anyone any age. Cut the c**p and move on.

BOY!! it will not last cause it is just s***

Answer 17

yes, unless he's a complete idiot.