I am 41. I feel lonely my mind is always worrying about something. What is the solution?

Question

I am a Maths B.Ed., of having experience in taking tuitions. But Now I am in Mumbai suburb. I have little contact to the soceity. So I am not that much knowing about the soceity, or What I can do? etc., But I am having talent of taking tuitions or job in schools Since I have completed in South based University I am not aware of taking me as a teacher in schools. I feel lonely because I can take Maths Tuition . Failed Students or Very weak students of class tenth.What I have to do? I am getting more angry and tension I am not at all able to concentrate in one think because of loneliness. I am not able to move with people of not having my wavelength. I can type well Is there any correct work for me to do at home Answer Me

Answer 1

Hi Shiyamala...

Some people feel lonely even when surrounded by people. And others may not feel loneliness inside even if they are actually lonely. We feel lonely from inside when we miss something or do not do what our heart desires for.

Find out what is missing in your life.

Is it people(society as you said) or partner(if you do not have one) or job satisfaction?

Do you want a regular job? Will a regular job be enough to make you feel good? You have all the qualifications and talent to teach in a school. Go for teaching in schools even if it is a moderate school. Maths is in demand.

You can also do higher studies in Maths.

You can find a partner as well if you do not have.

You can be helpful to your students as much as you can. Be friends with them. Yes as the poster above said, take a walk at the Mumbai beach. Be happy. Enjoy the universe- the sky, the morning, the dew, each and every moment. It is said that 'nature' can be a very good friend of man as it is created by God for man.

Answer 2

Hello sir,

             I don't know why you are feeling lonely. But reason is not important to me. I have a solution for you. First of all the reason for your loneliness is you don't do any job. As you have finished in a south based university it is surely difficult for you to cope up in north but dont worry nothing is permanent. Try finding if there is any of your people(south people) around your locality and interact with them. If you can't find one dont worry. Just get yourself into a good hobby, get up early in the morning watch the sunrise in the beach. it would help you to calm down register with a job search engine like naukari.com or jobsearch.com etc they would help you in getting a job in mumbai, then you would get a chance to interact with people if you start going to a job. If you still feel lonely get married. (assuming you are not married)