I am Bieng abused by my parents?

Question

i am bieng abused by my parents and im 13. My stepmom beats me for no particular reason and i cant ask my dad for help because he doesn't care because he hits me too. I feel like im not wanted by my family. One time i got slapped in the face really hard because i didnt answer my dad's question properly! I also get beat for not following my parennts' Bulls**t rules. here are some BS rules: be back home by 8:00PM and im 13 for god sake!. Here's another rule: I can't have sleepovers! I don't have a counseller at school, i have already talked to my teacher once and that did not help and i dont think i should call the cops (if you think i should tell me). What should i do?

Answer 1

I wonder if it is abuse or just seeking justification for your behavior? I was put off by your example of BS rules. I bet that you are in a shouting match with your parents over these "rules" that your parents are right, which is why your teacher didn't get involved. Rules are there to protect you, and to help you learn responsibility. If you are not following the rules then I can understand why they are so strict.

It sounds as if you and your parents are wrong. grow up and follow the rules. As you regain their trust they will be more lenient. oh and get off the drugs!

Answer 2

FIRST OF ALL...... (thank you in advance for all the thumbs down I'm going to recieve).

There's a big difference in "BEATINGS" and a good old fashioned whipping on your rear end.

Are they REALLY "beating" you or are they putting a belt on your butt??? (which is still legal in this country guys)

It sounds to me that you are the most self centered kid, and you have a very foul mouth for a 13 year old.

I would give you a spanking too if my "13 year old" child called my rules "bull ****" to my face.

DISCLAIMER: if you truly are getting "beaten" then yes they should be thrown in jail. (but I doubt that's what's happening here)

Answer 3

you can try slow talk to yor parents that you don't like the way they are treat you now. for your safety, try to follow all the rules that are done by your parents. this will helps you to reduce the punishment like beats, slapped from your parents.  i think you must face this problem with highly patient and try to avoid breaking the ruls that hae been done by your parents.  

Answer 4

OMG...i wanna give u a hug.

*tear*

well i think they are.

do u have like a close friend maybe their parents can help if so.

WTF...u told ur teachers and they did nothing what b*****s if i knew them people they would be gettin' a foot full of butt right about now.

i would try the close friend thing first or maybe some1 else u trust.

if all fails i would go to the cops but u cant jsut be like umm..my mom and dad beat me it would be good if u had something to show them like a mark or something cause it is going to end up being ur word agaist ur parents.

Answer 5

call the cops

Answer 6

dude, call the cops

Answer 7

the hitting is not ok, speak to someone at school who u trust.  BS rules -there looking out for you, i didnt have sleepover till i was about 15 and that was one friend about every 6month. and 8pm you 13 thats not bad really -maybe when your a bit older and they trust you more you will be aloud longer, but i dont see why 8pm is unreasonable really.

Answer 8

You should contact the Child Protection Services office in your area.  They should be listed in the phone book or find them on line and send them an email.  They will investigate.  They don't take this stuff lightly.

Answer 9

well if you truely hate them, run away from home.

be dependant and true to yourself.

just remember self confidence is the key to success.

and anyone who thumbs me down here, obiously dosent know whats it like bein abused by your parents, i havent been abused by mine.

and just remember that stepmum isnt your real mum, so tell her to go f**k herself or get her back, shes not even your mum and shes beating you, what would your real mum think about this.

do something about it.

Answer 10

you can im me at any time because i went through the same thing my im is [e-mail]. but you need to call the police

Answer 11

what kind of school is that?!!!

you talk to your church's pastor or priest. im sure they can help you. that issue in the family is not to be slacked off. if they continue to do that to  you it will really affect you emotionally.

you can call 911 for immediate action.

Answer 12

You lying fvck. I've seen this shlt before. Mum and Dad split up, or one dies. One remarries, kid starts acting up and throwing accusations around of violence and abuse because they don't want the new stepparent taking away their parent's role.

20:00 for a home time is okay, not too bad considering your age.

your school is legally obliged to provide counsellor, if you're in the UK (some of your spelling would indicate that you are). Your teacher is also legally obliged to report any abuse to social services, so you obviously didn't tell anyone.

My advice, get over it. You're dad's fallen for this other woman, and you're just trying in vain to split them up. Think of his happiness and stop being such a selfish fvcktard.

Answer 13

oh call socail services they take care of everything they will take you in and send you to another person in your otter family or find someone else to look after you for a while and they can get you parents like consoling and stuff for a while and because your 13 i think you can chose if you don't want to live with them. and if you don't mind living with someone else for a while

Answer 14

Definitely call childline - 0800 1111

They'll be able to help you and think of a solution for you and they are really easy to talk to!

Hope everything gets better for you  

Answer 15

you should tell the cops and or a friend or family member who you think may be a ble to help you and have them call cps child protective services

Answer 16

Call the police, you need to get out of that home.

Answer 17

heres some info.. hope it helps..

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