I am Japanease and I'm not happy .I want to escape from Japan.Can I do it?

Question

I am japanease girl of 20 years old.

I am working at the entertainment business of the male partner(night club or etc....)

My mental health is not good.

I am graduated from highschool only and I am poor at English.

I like computer,and I have little programing skill.

I want to change job,but in Japan,It's hard for me.

because I don't have any career and skills.

people enter university or another school almost same age.I am too late.

I feel confinement.

I want to restart my lifetime.

I want to change,but I feel it's difficult for me in Japan.

so,I want to leave in Japan.

I don't know about many country's situation.

I want to learn PC skills and get job at IT company in foreign country.

My mentalhealth is not good(I have suicidal thioughts every day)because I always compare same age's Japanese people.

If I escape from Japan,my inferior complex may became better...

Is my thought optimistic?

please teach me....

which country you recommend for me?

and your another adovice.

thank you for reading!!sorry for poor english. I wait answer!!!

Answer 1

aww! =(

come to Canada! or the USA. But I think for you, Canada would be a better choice, if you can hold on for a few years then everything will get better, Canada is a semi-socialist country and they have free-health care, and welfare for those who arent able to find jobs, and since you will be living alone probably, you might get other social help from the gov't. plus it's a very safe country! and very multi-cultural, you might even find yourself a japanese husband or friends here! if you dont speak english, it wont be a problem here =)

Answer 2

I would say go to China or USA, but is hard to immigrate there, so maybe Korea, New Zealand or Canada, ok? life will get better. never give up

Answer 3

I have to agree with most people here. Go to Canada or USA. But first, try to learn English so you wont have problems later.

Anyway, ganbatte!

Answer 4

こんにちは。　アメリカかカナダに行けばいいと思いますよ。　海外に行くと六ヶ月

ぐらいで英語ができるようになるはずだし、いい仕事を探せるかもしれません。

アメリカの高校や大学で日本語のALTとして働ける可能性もあるそうです。　

まず、海外の英語学校や日本語のALTの仕事を探してみた方がいいと思います。　

そして、浪人している学生も多いですから日本の大学にでも入れるはずですよ。　

遅くないと思います。

頑張ってください！

Answer 5

Come to America. You can basically do anything here if you set your mind to it. My mother was from Laos and she came to America when she was ten with basically nothing except the clothes on her back and her family. They were poor, but my mom went to school and then collrge and now she is the assistant manager at some kind of accounting job at Thomas Nelson Community College.

Answer 6

I am an American.  Do not commit suicide!  It will not make it better!  Maybe you should try immigrating to America.  It is nice here.  You will be free to change your career.  You will be able to go to college at any age.  When you are 60 years old, if you decide that you want to go to college, you can!  America is a wealthy country with people from all over the world.  If you learn PC skills, you will be very valuable to a potential employer.  Good luck to you!  And I hope that wherever you go, you will be very happy!