I am SO stressed out, can I have some advice...ANY PLEASE?

Question

I feel like I am so depressed right now. Everything is coming down on me all at once, and I cannot handle it. My parents are broke, and dont get paid for two weeks. They overdrew from their account on accident. I have 200 dollars left over after paying bills for two weeks, and that does not include gas, and she wants me to give her some.....she dosnt want to, but she has too.

I have this girl that I cannot stand that thinks we are friends. Well, we used to be. I have helped her out so many times without getting anything in return but drama and arguements. Her husband traded in his truck for a dirt bike that he is not liscensed to drive yet, so they want to car pool. I dont want to because they have a roach problem really bad, and when I am around them there is always DRAMA, plus they always complain about not having any money, and my husbands shift is different from her husbands. I have told them NO several times, but she keeps calling my house, cell, and my husbands cell over and over.

I have some credit cards I need to get paid off, but cant even afford the minimum payments for about another month or so.

My husband is getting deployed in about a month, and he is the only one I can talk to.

PLUS, I havent had my period since July 12, and I feel sick to my stomach and have hardly any appetite!!

What should or can I do? Please help me here I need some advice!!

Answer 1

if you are in a big problem i tell you this:

1- remember that there are people that suffer from more serious problems than yours. definitely, someone on earth will look to your problems and wish that he could have your problems instead of his.

2- remember the beauty of nature and feel relaxed and just realize that whatever your problems are they will go away and all will be fine.

3- remember also that problems toughen you and make you much stronger so you can face bigger problems and that is life.

i believe that no one can help you just you have to find the solution yourself but i just tried to give you a psychological push.

Answer 2

1: Your parents should not have to rely on you for help, its probly their fault they fell into debt.

2:Don't give whomever "her" is any money- you have your own issues.

3: To put it bluntly, tell her to f off, make it clear that you are not in the situation to help, give carpool rides, or take the load of her drama. If she persists, change your number, its ridiculous.

4: omg you could be pregnant fo sheezy, if u have the health insurance, go to the doctor, or it could be irregularity.

Sorry if i didnt help i tried.

Answer 3

first of all, calm down. the first thing you need to do is, tell your mom that  you can let her borrow money but only a certain amount (whatever you can do for her) and tell her you need it back as soon as she gets her check. the second thing is tell the girls husband that you're sorry but there's just no way you can carpool and you would really appreciate it if they could be understanding and stop insisting. (after all, its not your fault that he chose to get a dirt bike). Try to get a small loan or a payday loan (like a check in advance type) to pay your credit cards. If you can't pay your credit cards on time, don't stress yourself out too much - we've all been there. Spend as much time as possible with your husband before he gets deployed, and i'm pretty sure he will try to be there for you as much as he can. Maybe you haven't gotten your period because you are sooo stressed - that happens.  Don't worry about that dumb girl talking all this c**p about you - just try to ignore it - if it goes overboard then you need to tell her straight up to shut her big mouth up.

Answer 4

When the people ask to car pool, say "Sorry it won't work out,"  Over and over again.  Just forget them in your life.  Make them no longer part of your life so that they see your moving on.  Call your husband,  maybe he can take a vacation day in a while.  THen you guys can spend some time together.  As for your parents, just deal with it the best you can.  I don't know if you should lend them money, but maybe a little.  Hopefully you have other family members that can help.  If you have a really close friend, like best friend, then talk to him/her.  About the one that gives you drama, tell her that you give and don't recieve but make sure that you tell her you're not being greedy, but it's not the right thing for her to do.  GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!