I am a 13/14 year old tomboy in middle school and everyone hates me?

Question

I am a 13/14 year old tomboy in middle school and everyone hates me?

Answer 1

People will pick on anybody when they're your age. I was bullied by a bunch of popular girls because I had a lisp. My best friend was bullied because she was a tomboy, my other best friend was bullied because she was overweight.

We didn't let it effect us, and we're now all happy and successful young adults, and all those popular girls are still in community college and working at Priceline. Be true to yourself, you'll thank yourself when you're older. And don't worry, it'll be over soon, in two years time, you'll be hanging out with your cool, individual friends, and you'll wonder why you even worried about what other kids though :)

Answer 2

Everyone pretty much hates everyone in middle school.

Once you hit freshman year, it gets better!

Answer 3

Be true to yourself.  Middle school is definitely the hardest time of your life.  Realize that it does end, and it will get better.  Find some people that you have some things in common with and tlak to them.   Get involved in activities that you think are fun.  Don't let others get you down.  Everyone has problems in middle school.  Even the popular kids.  Watch how many times they get into fights with all the he said she said stuff.  If you don't have friends at school, try to find some good friends at church, or community groups.  I promise it will get better.

Answer 4

find a friend that is more hated and push your way up from there

Answer 5

same thing here, i am a big tomboy and all the populer kids think i am strange. i wear baggy pants, and big t shirts and i wear skate shoes. i have a pretty good amount of friends. i think if you do some things you like after school of join some sports, you will find some friends

Answer 6

That is o.k. I am kind of a tomgirl. I don't dress like one, but i like things like figure skating and other things. I am very outgoing and people think I am full of drama. I want to learn how to dance, like that hip hop style like on the movie save the last dance or whatever with the young girl. Or even on the cheetah girls. So I totaly know how yo0u feel. The best thing you can do is be yourself. Who people think you are is not importan, wether they except you is not imortant, who you want to be is important. Be yourself, there is going to be someone out there who will except you! By the way i AM 13

Answer 7

Shouldnt matter what other people think. You are you and thats, that! If they "hate" you because of that then they obviously hate themselves. Just ignore them....people are rude and it only makes others stronger.

Answer 8

Who cares what other people think! I use to be the class flirt and everybody hated me but did i let that stop me... No! And look where i am today! pregnant with twins and a husband (i am not pregnant with the husband) Just be your self!

Answer 9

Just be yourself.  You don't need friends like them.

Answer 10

Just know that middle school is probably the worst time of your life.  It only gets better from here.  You'll grow out of it, and so will all those people who hate you.  Hang in there, baby!