I am a 14 year old virgin who wants to have a baby. What should I do?

Question

My family is catholic, so of course they don't want me to have s*x until I am maried. I am trying really hard not to think about it. I go o a catholic school, so I guess it helps because I am not getting pressured. I keep asking my mom to adopt a baby, but I don't think it is working. WHAT SHOUL I DO?

Answer 1

start babysitting you will see its not what your ready for you still have your whole life to live. slow down.

Answer 2

Well the s*x before marriage thing .. not gonna work love.

and well as for the baby, it's just a phase. I went through it.

x*x

Answer 3

its your hormones and maternal instinct kicking in, it happened to me, but it passes. DO NOT GET PREGNANT it will ruin your teenage life and may  be more harmfu than helpful. Also you have to think of the implication on your family, they are obviously catholics and you need to repsect that, if you got pregnant their pride would be shattered. I agree babysit youll soon realise babies/kids arent all their cracked up to be [nappies, sick etc]

Answer 4

I agree, Babysit. You are just now learning how to take care of yourself, you don't need the extra pressure of a child. Don't make the same mistake I did, even though I love mine to death, don't do it!

Answer 5

You should wait. Seriously. You will be much better prepared for a child when you are older.

I know it's hard to wait, but you'll regret it if you don't.

I'd suggest babysitting, or trying to volunteer at a daycare

Answer 6

You can baby sit, or ask you mom to get a baby. You are too young to get a baby yet. Wait for atleast 3 years.

Answer 7

You are 14 and still a child yourself.  Wait until you're older and get married first.

Answer 8

you're 14

I don't think you should be accepting the responsibility of a child.

you're still going through school and wouldn't you want to have a child with someone you're in love with?

so you can share that.

or married to.

help out at a child care.

babysit.

volunteer:)

Answer 9

Having a baby at 14 years wold be a BIG mistake for that you are not enough fiscally or morally mature .

And if you want your baby to be happy you must study so that you will have money with which to take care of him .

The best thing to do is babysitting in this way you can esperimentate about how it is to take care of a baby .

Answer 10

Go to family that has young children, spend time with them..you'll soon change your mind.

Plus your a virgin! you dont want a babyyyyyy.

Answer 11

You're probably ovulating, you usually start to get these kinds of feelings around that time. It will probably pass in a week or so. Otherwise you have issues. Don't pressure your mum into something she doesn't want to do, it wouldn't be fair on the baby either. Wait until you're older and can look after yourself, never mind a baby.

Answer 12

See if there is a daycare near you that you can volunteer at --eventually get hired by--and also serve in the Church nursery.  They always need help.

Answer 13

Babysit, You get to spend time/care with/for little kids, But yet you don't have the responsibility of a parent.

Whatever you do, though  Don't get pregnant on purpose in till your old enough, and/or married, being a parent, especially a young one, isn't all fun and games, like some younger kids think.

Answer 14

You are not ready for this yet, you need to be focusing on getting your life in order before you consider bringing another life into the world. Hold off doing anything rash, go babysit or maybe your parents could consider doing foster care?

Answer 15

get a dog

Answer 16

First of all, since you go to church, you need to wait until you are married. Babies, are not a joke. So just because you play with one for ten minutes don mean that you can handle one 24/7. Be smart child!!!!!

Answer 17

I'm sorry to say this but that would be a HUGE mistake.

I am 13, and just had a miscarriage.

I guess God was watching over me.

Spend time with little kids, lots of time..

It might help you realize it would be something that would change your life forever.

And not just your life but everyone around you too.

Plus before having a baby there are so many questions you need to ask yourself and talk about with your parents and baby's father.

Think about this long and hard before you do something you'll regret.

**Good luck! God Bless =)

Answer 18

i think that we may have a troll on our hands here.......wern't you the same person that asked what you should do cause you wife is having sextuplets?

Answer 19

Do NOT act on it. I'm 15 & pregnant believe me stuff that gets said is awful makes you feel so bad about yourself

Answer 20

you shud wait till your older and you have a job so you

can provide food clothing for you baby....

right now you volunteer to work at a day care or baby sit.

if u have a baby at the age of 14 you willl regert!!!