I am a 22 year old woman married with no kids. I never really enjoyed s*x with my partner and lately?

Question

i met up with an old flame and i very ashamed in saying that i slept with him and i discovered another world. He was such a good lover and i left him on friday to come home. I have not heard from him ever since..i refuse to agree that he does not care about me...i emailed him saying that i loved him but yet nothing...AM I BEING SILLY BY thinking he might care and call me?

Answer 1

Think about how your husbands going to feel. You think it's a bit or harmless fun it'll tear his world apart.

Answer 2

married too young

Answer 3

The only reason you should contemplate leaving your husband is if he doesn't want to work on the marriage with you. Have a talk with him and tell him your not enjoying your s*x life as much and you would like to work on teaching him a few tricks. Another thing, is you should now what makes you feel good and what doesn't-so use that and work on your s*x life with the man you thought who was good enough for you to marry. My vote is stay and work things out, marriage really "is" a lifetime commitment and something you both have to be willing to work on. Stay Home.

Answer 4

If he wants it again.  He might feel guilty too cuz your married

Answer 5

It is really hard to tell if you're old flame still has feelings for you.However since you are already married,you should be thankful that he is not about to wreck your marriage.You are definitely not silly,things like those,do happen but when you allow it again to happen then you are SILLY.

Answer 6

You were wrong for even going that way.

Answer 7

no, he probably just used you for the moment.

Answer 8

pumped and dumped like a cheap stock

Answer 9

Your being silly...its was just a roll in the hay.....keep it in your memory banks, and keep it on the down low.  

Answer 10

No you are not being stupid.  It's very simple, from what i gather, it sounds that you and your partner very involved and arent the perfect couple.  If this guy cares for you, then try and make it lead somewhere, but dont hurt your partner!  Be there for him, but explain

Answer 11

yes u iz madd siily cuz he juss wanted sum booty n so did u yall both got wut yall wanted so lett it go

4SHO

Answer 12

You should have talked to your husband and told him you didn't enjoy s*x, why didn't you tell him? Did you expect him to improve his skills if he didn't know?? Tell him you don't enjoy it and he has to improve.  

Answer 13

Go for it. We are only here once so enjoy yourself. Will he call you? I don't know, He might but what have you to lose? Your in a stable relationship so if he only gets in touch once a month for an evening of s*x then that's something to look forward to

Answer 14

I'd laugh if he showed your husband that email you'd be ****** (again)

Answer 15

well if he said he doesn't care about you maybe he doesn't. try and work things out with your husband or talk to him about spicing things up in the bedroom. If you really don't think that you want to be with him maybe you should explore a divorce or something. Good Luck.

Answer 16

shame on you.. forget your vows?

Answer 17

Sweety, what you have between your legs is nothing compared to what's in your brain.

Being silly? Why on God's Green Earth would you think that?

Answer 18

yes u r being very very sill....he just wanted  s*x and he got it from u ....well u are being afool...n if u think that u are not enjoying it...then tell ur patner that u wnat to try out something new...and explore new boundries...that u need to feel that passion and warmth again...well yes...u shud talk to ur patrner!

Answer 19

Put this down to experience, he used you, if he was interested, he would have contacted you. You should concentrate on your marriage see  if you can make it better, and if not, then time to get out

Answer 20

I'm sorry to tell you this, but it is extremely likely that you were just a fling for him.

Answer 21

Your stupid. You were only there for this guy to use you and have s*x with him. And now you cheated on your husband for him? This other guy doesn't care about you at all!!

Answer 22

i Doubt it probably found a new girl??

Answer 23

your a tart why would he want you, once a cheat allways a cheat, stick with the c**p s*x and your dumb *** husband ha ha  

Answer 24

Do your husband a favor and divorce him.

You are exposing him to STD's .

Why on earth would you marry him if you didn't enjoy him sexually?

Answer 25

um ya. he probably considered it a safe fling being your married.

now, you need to do the right thing. whether he contacts you or not, ask yourself do you really want to involve yourself further in decite?  you either owe it to your husband to make it work, or leave him.  Dont start this b/s cheating c**p.  make a choice

Answer 26

The first thing you have to consider is that he slept with you knowing you were married, what type of respect has he shown your marriage before even thinking of respect towards you.

You are in very dangerous territory here, you are deluded if you think he cares for you, he is evidently shallow and you will no doubt get hurt is this process.

What are you going to do about your current husband, you are showing actions of feeling nothing for him? How would you feel if he found out about this?

Answer 27

don't worry hun:) in sure he'll call or in your worried call him yourself:)

spend more time with him and heel grow to love you too:)  

Answer 28

all i have to say is shame on u for cheating on your husband.

Answer 29

While he may care about you that doesn't mean that he wants a relationship with you.  He also may be ashamed for sleeping with a married woman and possibly ruining your marriage.  What you should instead be thinking about is how to take what you learned from this experience sexually and how to implement it in your marriage so that perhaps you can be sexually satisfied with in it.