I am a boy and i dress up like a girl and i like doing it but is it wrong?

Question

i have been doing it for about 3 years and have never been caught or told anyone i use my solo card to buy girls clothes of the net and hid them in hard to get to places. i also like to paint my nails. but i am wondering is this right

Answer 1

well i think it is'nt wrong but if your stealing someones else clothes then it would be but be honest to whoever your in a relationship with. And i advise you do this in private when no-ones in the house as many people would find this strange and may not be that understanding.

but why do you like dressing up in women's clothes?

Answer 2

Not if you don't mind appearing weird to most other people. But then you knew that when you asked the question.

Answer 3

ur a tran?? g*y???

Answer 4

ew.

do you have an interest in guys?

Answer 5

well you arent considered a cross dresser if you wear girls jeans i know a lot of punks who do that do get the tightness of the pants... but what you are doing is considered cross dresser and some people will see this as being wrong while others will accept who you are and say what ever makes you happy then do it...

so in other words if it makes you happy then keep doing it :)

Answer 6

No, if it feels right. Do it! Who care what other people think. What do they know.  

Answer 7

No, it is not wrong, it is up to you whether you do it or not. You probably have earned the nick name "Cross Dresser" or something related to it. I actually think any guy brave enough to even try on girls clothes, is kinda s**y. Lmao but thats me

Answer 8

if it makes you feel happy, then it isn't wrong, you certainly are not the first. people can be cruel and make fun of folk who like to cross dress, but in the end you need to do what makes you happy, not anyone else

Answer 9

youre a crossdresser and g*y. Its ok just be you and be happy other people will think its weird and say mean things but forget about them. Robin, crossdressing men are not s**y and its not manly.

Answer 10

Nature tells us that it is healthy for boys to like being boys, and for girls to like being girls.  When a boy wants to be a girl, then that is not considered healthy.

Social convention tells us that boys wear pants and girls wear skirts and dresses.  Back in the 40's and 50"s women challenged social convention and won the right to wear pants.  At first society was critical of these women, and said they were trying to act like men, or that they were jealous of men.  Women were not allowed to wear pants at school, or at church, or in any professional setting.  It took decades before society decided that women wearing pants was not a sinful social disruption.  Yes, women can wear pants and almost any men's clothing, but it was a long hard struggle.

How does that apply to you?  You are a compulsive crossdresser who feels a NEED to crossdress.  It mimics the addiction response.  You are doing it for the sensation it gives you.  You are not allowed to freely dress in women's clothes because of social convention.

Personally, I support your right to wear women's clothes.  In fact, if I was to go out on a date with you I would insist that you wear a pretty dress, like this:

http://www.simplydresses.com/color/detai...

When people would ask my why my date was wearing a dress I would defend him by saying, we are challenging social convention.  Society counts on its young people to question its old habits.  If it were not for challenging social convention we would not be able to expand our freedoms.  This is about freedom people.

While I think it is a good thing to challenge social convention, I don't think we can do anything about nature.  So while I will defend your right to wear a dress or a skirt, I do not believe it is right, or healthy, for you to want to change your gender.  I would prefer for you to be happy being a boy, who just likes to wear pretty clothes.   So wear your girls clothes, but do not pretend to be a girl: no fake b*****s, no fake hip pads, nothing to hide who you really are.

Your model should be women.  Women who won the right to wear men's clothes but are not pretending to be men.  So too, you should not pretend to be a girl.

Answer 11

of course it's not wrong, you can do whatever you want.  dressing like a girl doesn't hurt anyone.  it doesn't even have to be in hiding, you're just repressing your own emotions and creating guilt where there shouldn't be any.

it could help to sit down and really think about why you like to do these things;  is it just a quirky hobby or or is it more significant about your personality?  you might discover a lot about yourself, and become more at peace and more comfortable with this habit.

Answer 12

Yes it is wrong...

its called a "CROSS DRESSER"