I am a gujarati from Ahmedabad. Should I marry this Punjabi friend from Delhi ?

Question

Are Punjabis especially from Delhi very different from Gujaratis ? Are they compatible ? Are the Punjabis cheats or are they genuine people ?

Answer 1

it doesn't matter weather u r Punjabis or gujarati

if u love each other .............     get married ................

Answer 2

h**l yeah !!! but you should mention what type of marriage are u considering (bcuz u didn't mention s*x!!)....is it homo?..if it is,then first migrate to a western country and then marry ur babe :D

Aussie_Icon 's answer may be helpful for u (Y)

Answer 3

First thing first!!! if u r in love with that girl/guy jus marry him/her, y r u worried about the state in which he/she is living....

Punjabis are not the aliens... and to be honest i m not a punjabi...  i have lot of friends who r punjabis, they are awesome guyzz to be with....

answer to the last part of ur question wud be the simplest, u cant find trustworthy in ur community even... cheat or genuininess is personal, hence the particular community or caste cannot be pointed out single....

Answer 4

Despite its wealth India is still a basket case because of its stupid  prejudices.

If you love the girl marry her, otherwise move on with your petty stupidity disguised as mistrust and hatred.

Why do you ask this question? , is your culture that pathetic?

Punjabi's and Gujarati are not different , they are the same . Do you know why ?

Indians are all  people , they are human beings  with the same feelings , concerns , fears, worries and joys that you have.

Did Ghandi teach you people nothing? Did Ghandi strive for your independence in vain?

You all have a free country but your minds are still prisoners ..why???

The people who are getting rich in India are the ones who know that Indians are Indians and do not care for your petty stupid differences.

Maybe when you do you will be come better Indians too.

If you love this friend get married, if you do not move along and let your friend have some happiness in her life.

That is the true meaning of friendship.

Answer 5

You cannot classify one group of people that way...that leads to hate.

I'm sure Punjabis, Gujratis, or anyone else, are all equal.

Do not discriminate against anyone, because of the cultural background.  I'm sure that they are great people.

Answer 6

You are aski ng of community here. Thats incorrect. cheating depends upon personality to personality. You wanna say that , there is no cheater in gujrati. So it all depends upon the person you like and want to be with.. You should marry the one who loves you....

Answer 7

hi latika. As long as you yourselves are not too bothered about being a gujarati or hindu or anyother subdivision  to which you belong to, marrying within or out of ones clan would not make much of a difference. I am from Kerala, my wife is from punjab. All those are differences for the outside world, we are sort of specimens for them. But for us and our son, it is normal and part of life. My son( he's three now) would ask, so whats the big deal!! one word of caution though, if you have never travelled out of your state, not seen how other people live, what they eat etc, you could be in for a shock. (Especially one aspect is the diet. I know most Gujarati's are vegetarians. Many Punjabi's like non-veg dishes. ) If you have difficulty in thinking that your partner is a nonvegetarian and things like that, it is going to create problems. the key is adjustment to the other individual, whether it be within one's clan or outside. From my personal experience, my being keralite and her being punjabi affected us less than the fact that she is a vegetarian and me a hard core non vegetarian who eats all kinds of meat and seafood and relishes it!! But yes, for the families, it makes a difference. It is different for parents or other relatives accept (especially elder people with rural background who cant speak english or hindi) some one who is so alien to their culture and region. I'llbe glad if my answer has helped you in some way

Answer 8

Ya,why not.

u can see dif types culture /heritage.Also dif types of dishes.

I like this type of relationships.

Answer 9

You and only you can decide who to marry. Asking questions on this site is like asking a stranger on the street.