I am a horrible parent... what should I do?

Question

My daughter is a little brat I am starting to resent her... she is only 3 and is terrorizing my life! She says she hates hits at me and takes off already I have to chase her around out this point i give up. I dont want to be her mom anymore... I have to hear her scream for hours on in about the stupidiest littlest things. The whole neighborhood knows she's a fcuking brat and doesn't want her playing with there kids. I am sick of it. I am a single mom i was a good kid. I think she was born like that horrible!!! i mean it her dads a jail bird and displays the same bad behavior. He's not around but genes are still there. I just want a good life and she is ruining my life all around! I am just a house slave and a rug for her to wipe her feet on. I am seriously resenting her!!!! She does what ever she wants I've tried all those bull shat techniques but she's a TERROR!!!!!

Answer 1

Hand her over to one of those BS, SS programs who think they know so well how to raise children. Tell them this is the product that they endorsed, you simply supplied the material. It's their agenda and it's out of control now. Now the ball is in their court. Or you could shove her off on Montel Williams, Jerry Springer, Oprah, Maury Povich or any of the other leftist liberals who talk the talk but don't have to live the life.

Answer 2

Sorry to hear about your struggles.  I would do three things if I were you.  1) consult child psychiatrist  2) watch supernanny on tv, she has excellent ideas on setting limits and turning around relationships with kiddos 3) enroll in parenting class in your community and share/get ideas from other moms with challenging kids.  4) consider giving her up for adoption if you really can't cope.  Good luck.

Answer 3

Depending on the state you live in, there are different programs available.  I would talk to her Dr. and see if her behavior is within the realm of normal or if there is more going on.  I would enroll her in preschool for both of your benefits.  (If money is a barrier, look into Head Start.)  It sounds like you need a break, even if it's just for a half hour so you can go for a walk/take a hot shower, maybe someone could watch her.  (And I wouldn't think too much about her dad's behavior-it won't help anything.  Lots of people/kids have overcome worse genes.)  Good luck.