I am a teen crossdresser, And Im coming out, what would be the best way to do this??

Question

Okay I am 16, and I am a crossdresser, Im tired of hiding this part of me, I have alot of support from a few friends, But im not sure how i should tell my family, (my mom knows and dosnt care) and also how i should tell my school. Im planning to just show up dressed up But im still kinda nervous and would like some or any advice.

Answer 1

First off, let me say that I am proud of you, and envious, in that I wish I had as much courage as you do.  I am 49 now, and have been crossdressing for as far back as I can remember.  It started before I was even 5, and although it began as my method to deal with a very abusive mother, it grew into what is and will always be a part of me.  It provides me that special time in which I can distance myself from all the stresses and pressures in life that you still being in school, have no idea about...  consider yourself lucky.  Consider yourself lucky to live in a time in which you will encounter less problems, but do not be so naive to believe that they will not occur.  Know that although this will be one of the most satisfying and momentous events of your life, the day that you no longer feel as if you must hide who you know you are, that some will meet you and accept you, and judge you on your character, and others will not be so understanding and open minded.  They may laugh, they may even try to hurt you, but never forget that it is not you with the problem, it is them that has one.  Know that it will be their loss, to not ever realize what a friend you could have made them.  Know that just as some people despise others because of their color, or perhaps because of who they choose to call their God, that some will despise you because of what you choose to wear.  Know that you are a pioneer, that you were amongst those having such pride and courage, that you were willing to put yousrlf out there, knowing that such a decision, although putting yourself at risk, will ultimately be the reason why at some point in the future,  others will not suffer as you might, that others will be able to walk outside in the open air, in peace, without being judged, accepted for the person they are, holding their heads high.  And in my book....  that makes you a hero!  

You might consider having those close and accepting of you, to be in your company, to look out for you.  You might also want to discuss your plans wth the counseling staff and see how to handle certaon situations.  the bathroom for instance, or where you will change for P.E.   You might also be prepared to have a little humor about it as well.  If for instance someone complimets you on your pink nail polish...  tell them thanks, and how the shade matches your panties!  Be respectful to those not accepting of you.  This will only help to aid them in coming around sooner.  Try not to go anywhere alone for awhile, and above all else...  smile and jut enjoy your opportunity to live your life now as yourself.  I wish you all the best.    You GO girl!!!!!