I am a virgin.. what should i say?

Question

hey im a virgin... gunna b a freshmen in college, and wondering if i should tell people i am one or say im not so i can get laid haha.. but like im not a nerd.. im playing sports for the school.. i juss never have.. i mean i almost have w/ like 3 girls but juss never have.. i party and stuff so im not the type to sit in my room and like play xbox. what do you think i should say?

Answer 1

just tell the truth. Most girls like virgins.

Answer 2

it's your decision, but personally it's no ones business. i assume you're a guy and it'd be really lame to go around telling girls because unless they are really S****y, no one is going to get all excited and want to lay you. It's guys who are into the whole popping the cherry thig -- girls generally don't care.

Also, take your time and find the right girl because you ALWAYS remember your first. My fiance slept with a really trashy girl and he regrets it because he didn't love her nor did she love him.

EDIT: Also, once we got together and he realized the difference between "making love" and "f---king" he felt even worse. So remember, doing it with a random girl might feel good at the time, but when you get with a girl you actually care about, you're going to feel crappy

Answer 3

Nobody is really going to ask you if ur a virgin. People usually already assume that ur not!

Answer 4

you don;t really need to bring it up unless someone else does. When you get your first girlfriend, when things start to get serious tell her ofcourse.

And if say, you're out at a college party and all the guys around you start talking about past experiences and you don't feel like saying anything just say its personal, therefore you're not lieing about not beinga virgin. Or you could justsay you are, and sure they'll be some teasing but shouldnt be too bad if they're your mates.

Answer 5

Say nothing, except to the guy who's your first.

Remember the birth control.

Answer 6

Keep it quiet and create an air of mystery - is he/isn't he?, why tell anyone such a personnal thing!. Anyone who asks you is childish and out of order/innapropiate!