I am addicted to pornography and it is interfering with my life, how do I stop? Any tips? This is serious?

Question

This is a serious question, I am not joking. It is tearing my life apart. I spend at least 3 hours a night online looking at p**n. It has gotten progressively worse too. Now i look for new and interesting p**n to look at. I am very ashamed of this... but i need some help... any advice?

Answer 1

Find a support group

google p**n addition and see what self help groups come up

Answer 2

You have found yourself and what you need to do now  is try to know and understand yourself and then help yourself.

It is easier to look at others and try to understand them and work out something to help them.   Do the reverse but need a big strong mirror to reflex you totally.

Distraction with some,  more interesting happening will take you away from your p**n.  You call it addicted and is correct like smoking & drinking.   Think, mediate and do a retreat to restudy  your inter-self to find out why you are doing this and laugh it out as you are a fool, fooling yourself to believe in what you want to believe.  

Good things on pornograghy:1)  it help those who want to know more variety of s*x and become s*x healthy 2) it also help people to do it right inorder to have baby i.e. for those who are married for a long period but doing wrongs.  3) it help some to release easily so that there is no blockage in the system and is also good for health.

Are they helpful?

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with looking at p**n. If you feel like doing it for 3 hours, do it for 3 hours. If it pisses off your gf, it's a relationship problem. If it interferes with your responsibilities, it's a time management/work problem. p**n is not the problem.

You do not need to feel ashamed for engaging in a very healthy and normal behavior.

p**n is not an addiction, it is an outlet for sexual frustration and sexual expression. Even BDSM and extreme p**n is not a "problem", as long as you are fulfilling daily obligations.

Answer 4

i know what u mean, it can get pretty bad. But addiction to p**n can actually be very easy to overcome. Its not in your bloodstream like drugs.

First try willpower. if that fails try to threaten yourself with a curse. This sounds stupid but ive scared myself out of doing things before. Ask god to curse you with bad luck forever or never being able to see your crush again if you do not stop watching p**n.

If your religous then you just made a deal with god and thats what always helps me lol.  Good Luck ;)

Answer 5

get rid of the internet  or get all adult sights  bared.

  you may need some on else  to do that for you    but i would  suggest prayer and asking God  to help you control it.  but getting of the temptation makes sense also.

Answer 6

You will be bored to see that. or just turn it off and do something else.  you not mentioned your age.. can't give you advices more than that.