I am adopted: should look 4 my real mom??

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Answer 1

If i was you yes i would i mean what do you got to lose i wouldint want to live my life without knowing if my real parents were alive or dead* im not adopted*

Answer 2

I mean yeah go ahead if you're willing to go the distance.yeah you can do.you can anything if you put your mind to it.out there your mom really loves you and she will love to see you go on.

    gemz

Answer 3

it depends do you know where she lives, city, state,

Answer 4

yes its very good and fun we recently found my cousin (she was tooken from my aunt and adopted) after like 20 years and she said it was probly the happiest time of her life and she was so excited

i really think you should but beware you might not find a happy ending or even an ending for that matter

good luck

Answer 5

u should if u tink u r mentally and physically prepared.sumtime theres alot of question that running thru ur mind..what to ask her and what is her answer.u have to be open minded and think thru all,anythg that u might voice out.There is a reason y u wanna met her right?so ask urself do u really wanna met her..u might also wanna talk to ur foster parents and get their feedback..what ever it is make sure u r really prepared..

Answer 6

if you feel strongly about it then go for it

however i must hurge you not to get your hopes up .. and expect disappointment.

that way you will prepare your heart and head for the worst so if you find out something you dont want to then it wont distroy you because you have prepared for it

but if everything ends up 'perfect' and they way you hoped for.. then it will turn out to be the best feeling in the world

good luck!

Answer 7

you know its really up to you, if you feel finding your mom would give you some kind of closure or you just want to see her, i think you should. everyone should get a chance to meet there birth mother(:

Answer 8

it depends on you.if you feel lost or like you need to know.then yes or if you just plainly want to meet her.but if you think it maight hurt or you feel like it does not really matter then i would leave it at what you have now..hope i helped

Answer 9

Honey you must be having alot of emotions at the moment. If this is what you really  want, then yes, but  speak to your mum and dad and see how they feel, they too may be happy for you but also they may feel a little scared, in thinking they may lose you.

I hope all goes well, and if and when you find your biological mum I hope it is joyous for you all.

But do be pre pared for some hurt as well.  But just keep ur chin up. ok

Good luck.

Min :-)

Answer 10

That's entirely up to you. My husband never met his real dad, although he's not adopted. His sister had always wanted to meet him, and looked him up. My husband flew down to see him because his sis pitched a fit because his "dad" was dying of cancer and had only 3 months to live from the time that she found him.

The guy was a total jerk, and I really think that my hubby would have been better off not meeting him and imagining him to actually be a good person.

His sister on the other hand, has no regrets.

If you really want to meet your mom, go for it. It might make your adoptive parents uncomfortable, or feel unloved and unappreciated. Make sure that you reassure them that you love them and that they will always be your parents every step along the way if you decide to look her up.

You can have two moms you know :-)

Answer 11

My Mum was adopted and never did she want to find her birth mother. Her adoptive parents were so amazing and she had a wonderful childhood so she never felt the need.

Answer 12

if u wana, but remember:

your true mother is the one that has cared for you, whether or not related by blood. Blood is only genetic, no feelings are involved.

If u are happy rite now, dont

Answer 13

Yes. my mom was adopted and got really sad but then she did research and found who her real parents are and got happier to know that their alive... the only thing is she doesn't know where they are... she still slightly sad... :( but yeah bet you would be happy finding your real parents... depends if you really want too they may not what you expect...

Answer 14

Only if you want to. Do you know why she gave you up? You need to speak to your adoptive parents about this - bear in mind that they have brought you up to be who you are, not your mum.  You need to ask them if its ok. If they are reasonable, they will understand your need to find your birth mother, on the other hand, they might be upset. BUT if you are happy with the way things are, then don't look for her. She might have another family, or she may not be so keen to see you - for whatever reasons. This is a really big thing, and you need to talk about it with people who care about you.

Answer 15

i really really hope in 8 years my son looks for me.