I am afraid this 2yo girl "loves" me. I am leaving and I cant have this. What do I do?

Question

I have been around off-and-on for 6 months. Now I am going to leave. What should I do? She says she loves me and she does not want me to leave. But I cant stay. Help?

Answer 1

what the f*ck is the matter with you pedophile!!!

Answer 2

Tell you have to leave and that your really sorry.

Answer 3

Two year old's memory is short, within a week or so she won't remember you at all so don't feel bad you will be back to stranger status within a month.

Answer 4

if she really loves you she will let you go! and wait for you cuz thats true love!

if she dosent let you then she dosent love you and you guys probably wouldnt last!

but if she is 2 years old (if thats what you wrote) then just leave she will be waiting! probably forget you but shell be waiting but dosent know she is!

best answer plz

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Answer 5

say your going on a date

and will be back soon

and tell her she can call when ever she misses u

googluck i have the same thing wit my litttle cousins

Answer 6

Little girls and little kids become attached to people they feel safe around..it is sad that you have to go, but you should do what is best for you. She will forget all about you...you just have to either stay or leave...confusing a toddler is not good. so make a choice and stick to it.

Answer 7

Two year olds can remember things for more than just a week especially something that has been in their lives for a while i would suggest askin the mom if it is ok for you to call the baby and send her letters especially if you want to keep in contact  then explain what is going to happen to the baby or just leave and dont contact the child but dont go in and out of her life this could cause hes to become insecure later in life

Answer 8

Wait, she's 2? or 20?

Answer 9

A TWO year-old?? Wow, that's so cute! Awww...young love.

I gues imprinted on you...for you Twilight fans, lol!

But, I'd tell her that you'll be back. you have to go, still, but you'll be back to visit...even if you won't. Eventually, since she's so young, she'll forget. In time, it'll all just disappear.

Answer 10

This is sooo common.

Love that is left unreturned.

The answer is quite obvious...you sound like a smart guy....In your heart you know what you have to do. I urge you to talk to this girl about your true feelings.

It may sound hard or unnecessary, but the female race ticks much differently than men. If we are left behind, we have speration anxiety. If we are broken up with, we eventually get over it.

If you "just leave" she may be more obsessed then ever. She may think of it even as mysterious and romantic. If you never tell her the truth, you may be far worse off.

She may go into denial, and even refer to you as her boyfriend still. NEVER ignore her. CONSTANTLY remind her. Eventually she'll get the picture. Hope I helped!!

Answer 11

A 2 year old?  Is that a typo?

Answer 12

God, judging by some of the comments above some people are so THICK aren't they? What the h**l did they think you meant? Like you were really seeking breakup advice with a child. Get a grip people, seriously, this tabloid hysteria is building to utterly moronic levels.

Well she seems to see you as a surrogate father, and judging by the fact you are even asking this question, it's evidently going to be a wrench for you as well.

Is the relationship too far gone for you to give it another go? If you can, this may be the thing to save it. Only you can make this decision, though in your situation I would be inclined to think with my heart rather than my head. But if you're not ready to settle down, fair enough. Good luck with it though.

Answer 13

2 year old????????????  do u love her back?

Answer 14

Wait what? 2 year old girl, or you have been dating her for 2 years... If she is 2 years old you are a sick man... I do not understand the question.

Answer 15

well if you love her, then tell her to come with you.

if you dont just tell her and then say bye :]

Answer 16

your a peadophile .. your sick .. you need locked up .BUT.. if thats not what your meaning.. please be more specfic in your question.

Answer 17

Well if she is only 2 years old and she told you she loved you she doesn't really meant it because she is too young to understand love and the emotions that come with it so tell her you love her too and that she will see you again.

Answer 18

They may have meant 20 years old.

Typo?

If so...

You have to follow your heart, sure she'll be upset, but at the end of the day, put yourself first, cause I'm sure she'd want you to be happy.

If not, she's not worth sticking around for anywa

Answer 19

2 years old?? wtf peadophile dont go near her

Answer 20

i am guessing this is a niece or daughter...

she will get over it. i am sry.. just tell her that you have to leave and you are sorry... she will forget in a couple of days..