I am an army officer posted at the border and have just returned from 15 days leave at home?

Question

During this period when I reached home, I switched on my home PC and logged into yahoo and found a new id with the password propping up without prompting (remember my id/password). I found it was a correspondence between my spouse and a guy. The mails were full of c**p and it has really hurt me so badly. I struggled everyday to stay alive fighting the terrorists and here now I just cannot concentrate on my job and just dont have the will to carry on. Life has become meaningless. When I saw the rubbish on the PC - I smashed the computer and since then have been trying to remember the password to the id - so that I can take action against the guy. I really need help - can anyone help me out? It will be a great favour and a burden off my shoulders. I do not want to be the cause of the death of my soldiers by not concentrating on my job at hand.

Answer 1

Yes take your smashed computer to an expert. Every bit of info that was on your computer, is in the hard drive. Even things that have been erased can be brough out. Do you know anyone in the FBI, their lab can get the info off your computer. My God bless you and your men. Ex Navy here.

Answer 2

Wow,I feel for you.I dont know how to get that password back up.I think your wive has the answers that you need.Are you trying to work things out?You need to consentrate on you and your men,and deal with her after you come home.Good luck.

Answer 3

Bless your heart. The info. already listed will help, there is also a  retrevial program you can purchase and you can access your lost info. with the use of another pc. In the meantime take a deep breath and try not to concentrate on what she has done. It appears she is a very foolish, and selfish person to be cheating on you like this.If you can block this out of your mind, you may then be able to remember the password. I know that's hard to do but give it a try; and say the alphabet slowly, it may just help jog your memory and reveal the password. If you know the Lord, trust Him to help you deal with this betrayal of your trust in your wife. I had until recently a unfaithful husband, who has cheated repeatedly on me  because his is insecure and the counslor said abusively insane or insanely abusive. The counslor wasn't sure which described him most. I also know a young man who married a girl just before he went overseas, she has been cheating on him ever since. She did't marry him for love, just his military check. I have seen her hanging on to men and boys(17 to 19 and older) while he is over seas. I will not tell him while he is in service for his protection. But when he gets home I think he should know that she has been untrue since day one of their marriage. I know what a struggle it has been for me knowing my husband was not only untrue but sick enough to take my daughter away and brain wash her. She is slowly learning what a monster he really is. Not from me, but the way is his lying to  and  mis-treating her. Please know that I will be praying for you and your situation as well as for your men in service. Ask the Lord to give you strength for this battle at home as well as the one you face across the seas.  My Dad was Army/Air Corp in WW-2 and his first wife was cheating on him with his sargent. But he let God take care of it. She lost her divorce case against Dad and didn't get one cent of his money. Then he found Mom and they were a match made in Heaven. They loved each other very much; as well as us kids. They were always faithful to one another, even when death separated them, love endured and then Mom when to be with Dad. If you need a friendly ear drop a line to me, or not as you wish. Either way I will be praying for the Lord to grant you peace and strength for the battles and struggles you are going through. And remember, you are "going through them," that means you aren't stuck in these battles, your are passing through them to the other side. Take care and try not to allow this unfortunate situation rob you of being a good leader for your men. For now let them be your family, and care for them as if they were/are your faithful companion for you instead. As soon as I log off here I will log on to my Churches Prayer list and put you and your men on it.  Hand in there ok?