I am an attractive girl, but no guys talk to me! why?

Question

all they do is look at me (my eyes) in class..

and they smile when I talk to other people like my friends or something

but like..

WHY CAN'T THEY COME UP TO ME!!!

how am i going to get a date to a dance or something like that... =(

does my attractiveness scare them off or someting?

idk whats wrong..

I'm not like the loud kind of girl, and not that talkative in class, but I do talk when I need too.

anyone knows why these guys that im pretty sure like me...wont talk to me??

thank youu

Answer 1

ok theres 2 ways the guys look at u. im a hot guy as well. okay first one is u might be sooo hot that they are nervous to start off a conversation with you so to fix this say hi to them once in a while so it shows u are talkable the second one is you are not that hot so guys dont want to waste their time on you when there are other girls that are hotter. im prety sure u are in high school and guys act like this. but when i see a hot girl i just go up to her and give her a big hug or slap their bum to get attention from them lol :P

Answer 2

It's not all about looks. It's good that you are sure of yourself, but that might be scaring guys off with that. Why don't you make a move? Talk to a guy you like and send off good vibes, to let him know you're interested. You'll just have to hope for a guy to ask you, or if that doesn't happen, pluck the courage and ask someone yourself! :)

Answer 3

They're probably afraid to talk to you because they're worried you'll hurt them... & being hurt by an attractive girl is a little more painful than being hurt by one that looks like poo. FYI, guys have big ego's. In other words, yeah they're probably just intimidated.

Answer 4

because you intimidate guys and guys get nervous too.

come to my school and then youd get attention (joke) :P

Answer 5

they're probably intimidated by you. it's always hard for the most beautiful girls to find guys... because those are the girls the guys are most scared to talk to. getting rejected by a gorgeous girl like you would be a huge blow to their confidence. soooo i say... why not talk to them first?? if you think you are attracted to one of them or like them, go up and talk to them. a simple 'hey' with a smile should get things going. :)

Answer 6

Must guys while they act like they are all big and bad, are more or less little boys inside. Yes, beauty does scare them off. They are afraid of rejection. So, to me it sounds like you haven't been around guys with a lot of self esteem. And by self esteem I don't mean some cocky jackass that has to make fun of people to look big. Look for someone who had real self esteem, and pride in who they are. Those kinds of guys are hard to find, I don't really think I'm one of them either. Don't make the mistake of making the first move, if a guy doesn't have the courage to ask you out, then you'll get bored with him really quick. Give it time, the right guy will come around at some point!

Answer 7

umm I'm a guy but maybe they're really shy most guys don't know how to act around girls so probally they dont want to mess anything up till they get the courage to talk to you?