I am annoyed with my friends more often than not...I don't even think I like them anymore! Help!??

Question

I'm a high school junior, and I have a circle of five close friends (not including myself). This past year, we have had a lot of drama and fights, most of the time over stupid, immature things. Towards the end of the year I had separate fights with two of them, and I don't consider them my friends anymore (though I still see them often, bc they hang out with my other friends). Two of my remaining friends live close to each other, so they hang out together a lot. The last friend is the only one who I am not annoyed with; we always get along fine. The problem is that I feel like those two other friends and I have been getting more distant as time goes on. I've been friends with one of them since 1st grade.

Sometimes I feel like the only one of my friends who has any ounce of maturity, because they are always starting drama or acting biitchy to each other. I'm sick of it, and I'm sick of feeling like I'd be better off on my own.

What should I do to resolve this??

Answer 1

yeah people grow up and they change.and it happend to you too.you grew up and you dont bond with them anymore.your likes and dislikes changed.so its fine dont be with them.you will find better friends.

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Answer 2

i think that you'll never really get back to being good friends with the others. i thinkn you should just make some new friends

Answer 3

Over the years friends out grow each other as you mature and your interests change. You need to find friends now with common interest. The true friends will last forever no matter who you hang out with etc. I have three friends from high school that are still my close friends. I don't see them often, but I know they're there when I need them. I'm 41 so that says a lot.

Answer 4

i no this might sound lame but invite all of them over and have like an intervention where your not allowed to fight or cry you just talk about the problems you guys have been having and work everything out i did this with my friends when we were all mad at each other then after that we all went back to being best friends because we understood why were were all mad at each other and we worked it out!!

-hope this helps