I am being bullied plz help

Question

i am half way through yr 8 and i am being tease

if i ever say any thing they will laugh

if i tell a teacher they will tease me about that

if i attack them i will get busted and i will get tease me

no matter what i do they laugh or hit me

if i walk/run away they will follow

what should i do

thanks for you help

Answer 1

haha dont take online martial arts lessons

TELL SOMEONE YOU TRUST and DONT GIVE UP, BOYFRIEND

Answer 2

It's really tough being bullied, man. I know that in grade school I was always made fun of for rumors that weren't true. There's usually no easy answer. I know it seems hard, but if they bug you too much you should just go to a teacher. Things get worse if you try to act like someone you aren't- a tough act or outsmarting them won't really help here.

Thing is, a lot of people in the world just aren't nice. They're going to try to hurt you with their words and their actions, and all you can really do right now is bear with it until they grow up some more and realize that they're wrong. Try not to sink to their level- stay in there, it'll get better as you get older.

Answer 3

Follow these steps for your solution:

Convert yourself to Christianity (If you aren't already a Christian)

Now start praying to God and eventually your problem will be solved in some way

And at times, it may seem like nothing is happening to help you reach a solution, it just mean you gotta give it more time, trust God, he knows what's best for you.

Answer 4

Man, it sounds like you're having a tough time. Do u have any close friends who will help you and not laugh if you ask them for help? Sometimes just having someone to talk to can really help you. If you don't have any in real life, u could contact me @ [e-mail]

Answer 5

13 yr old middle schoolers should know better.  That is the kind of thing that happens in 1st and 2nd grades.  If you get hit, call the police and have them arrested.  Bullying is against most school policies. Go to the principal, bring a parent and make sure that you let it be known that your education is being disrupted.  Also let it be known that if it doesn't stop, you will go to the board of education.  And then to a lawyer.  You have the right to an education, and these bullies have no right to deprive you of it.

Answer 6

just act like you don't care, and join some group. they'll eventually start leaving you alone. if it helps, say "have you ever noticed how hard it is to insult someone who just doesn't care?" to someone when they're nearby. if all else fails, ask the principle for their parents phone numbers and take it straight to them. i also stay near the teachers so they're more likely to hear it themselves.

Answer 7

baby i believe you need to give this situation to god, he is the only one who can straighten out issues in our lives.have you told your parents?

tell the principle, fight back, it says in gods word that his children sometimes may have to fight, because the devil will test you, and you have to prove him wrong.What happened in the first place for them to start messing with you?Everyone ghets bullied in school, i still do and im in 10th grade now, but i'm going to pray for you and i hope the best for you this year in school.

Answer 8

Ignore them. They end up looking like the idiots. If it gets really bad then tell somebody, who cares if a couple kids don't like you or make fun of you? There's 6 billion other people in the world to get along with.

Answer 9

I am sorry for your pain.It is so hard to be in your age group...people can be so cruel.Do not tolerate any physical abuse...you should tell someone.As far as the emotional abuse, you are going to have to let it roll off of your back.I was contantly teased in middle school and high school & I ended up being one of the most successful people in my class.I also agree with the previous comment about God(he can always help guide you!)

Answer 10

I am glad to hear that you are a Christian, and so I am sure that you have prayed about it already, right???

Next, please know that I am a teacher and a Christian.

So, you and your mom or dad need to talk to both the teacher and principal.  tell them exactly what is going on.  Write it down if you think that it will help you to remember in case you get nervous during the meeting.

Hopefully they will have some good ideas for you  Stay strong, keep your friend close to you and try not to be alone during school or on the way home or to school.  If you want to take martial arts classes, I think it might help your self  confience, but take them near home so you can get to know the teacher and make friends there.

My son had the same problem and school was hard for him . Is there a chance for you to change schools or be homeschooled?  I know lots of home schooled kids and they love it and are getting a good education too.

I'll try to keep you in my prayers as well.

God Bless,

Pat

Answer 11

First off, your 8. You shouldn't even be on Y!A. Second, pray. God will fix it. Besides, just tell your mom and if it goes to far, use the cops.

Answer 12

You should tell the teacher and ingore them.

Answer 13

Stay Confident and show them that no matter what they may do, no matter how much they push you around, you will not be broken. Stay strong and positive, keep the smiles coming. Surround yourself with great friends and positive environments, this may help you forget the problems they cause.

If it becomes physical you really need to tell an adult. I know that they may tease you, but they will have to stop in the end. And if it really is upsetting to you, just remember, in a few years it won't matter.  

You are only as happy as you allow yourself to be.  Smile. Keep positive. Confidence is key (even if you are faking). Don't give up!

Answer 14

The only reason that anyone is picking on you is because they like your reaction.  If they know they are really bothering you, they will keep on doing it.

Do not attack them, but do not back down either.  Stand up for yourself, and be CONFIDENT.  Confidence can scare bullies away.  Just laugh at them whenever they try to tease you.  Pretend it doesnt bother you.  Don't let it bother you.  They are just stupid punks who won't go anywhere in life.

If your life or safety is in danger, like if they threaten you, you do need to tell a teacher.

Goosey

Answer 15

Jus think positive about things.

If it has to happen.. put them in there place, and worry about the number one person. You.

Just remember you have to deal with them soon cause you dont want this happening until you are a 12th grader

If teacher isnt handeling it, step up to the plate and do what you gotta do (stick up for yourself)

Good luck.

Answer 16

Act bored they will eventually get tired of teasing you. Try to find whats making them tease you. Work hard in school focus on making friends and do positive stuff that will make them forget about you

Answer 17

okay be postitive stay confident and pray. if it continues to the point that your life is in danger please tell a parent, teacher, or trusted adult.