I am being haunted in my dreams every night by a very abusive ex partner

Question

I am being haunted almost every night by my violent ex girlfriend, it is like she is in the room with me. It was an awful relationship and she was pshycotic. I feel I am being haunted by her. What can I do!!!

Answer 1

First: are you living in the same room you shared w/ exgf? Abusive behavior can be 'recorded' in that room, and emanated at those times when you are sleeping & most vulnerable. Your own recollections can make it likely, in concert with the 'bad vibes'.

Consult a dependable psychic to 'smudge' the room with aromatic herbs to exorcise those bad vibes. It's possible she put a curse on the place, so you might search for any nasty artifacts she may have left behind.

I hope this covers for you. Blessed be.

Answer 2

Maybe she is in the room with you...maybe she sneaks in every night....sleep with a baseball bat and go see a shrink. >_<

Answer 3

i don't know if this would help, but in my dreams when they get really scary or freakish, i normally some how turn things around, i normally tell myself that i'm not giving up or giving in, and it works for me.

if that don't work for you, you can always go to a psychologist, they will probably tell you to confront your fears .

there is also different meaning to dreams, not sure how to find out about those stuff though.

hope this help.

Answer 4

i had a very abusive partner 20 years ago i still get dreams about him now they never go but they do fade  

Answer 5

Until you grasp what is terrifying you about her, you'll continue having the horrid dreams. Have you tried doing that thing where you alter your dreams? As you fall asleep keep in your mind that she's either really tiny, like the size of an ant or something,  or that you overcome her. I can't remember what that process is called. Also it wouldn't hurt to have a counselor to speak with. Your subconscious mind is the active problem in this matter. Also trying to imagine a relaxing thing or place where you and she have never been involved. I know it's not much, but you're in a tough situation there and I'm sorry to hear that.

Answer 6

I think that you might want to see a counselor, they seem to help get people and situations like this off the mind. It may be a slow process, but I'm sure a really good one will help you clear your head of that person and things reminding you of them.

If you don't want to that, however, I would recommend treating yourself to certain leisure activities, possibly trying to date someone else, or even possibly confronting the person. I would set up something in a place other people will be so nothing elevates too far, then ask them for an apology or why they might have been so abusive. Don't let the person walk on you either, let them know you were really hurt and what pain you are still experiencing, ex: bad dreams.