I am being stalked by this guy I only knew for 2 days.?

Question

I hung out with this guy for 2 days until he became borderline violent and threw his skateboard in a fit of rage over a minor disagreement we had (and I left the parking lot). I am 19, and he is 28 should act better since he is almost 30. For the last month, he leaves me mixed messages and texts on my phone. He'll say stuff like "I'll take care of u hun" and send me smiley faces. Then he tells me I am going to get beaten up and he wants to take me off the face of the Earth. Then again with the "call me." This is bizzare since I cut off ALL CONTACT with him the day after I met him, and I did not do anything with him like kissing or holding hands. He is rude in public. He does nothing but sell weed, no regular job. I really dont know why he is acting this way, because he is someone I don't really know and this has been going on for more than a month. Help me. I only knew him 2 days!

Answer 1

yeah he'll start stocking you all out pretty soon. get a restraining order and start calling the cops on him when he is carrying so he gets it confiscated and loses money and if he has enough some jail time too.

Answer 2

uh...yeah! you're too young...he's too old. You should leave him alone.

Answer 3

a thirty yr old skater???

Call the police

Answer 4

He is a WHACKO!!! If he's talking about taking you off the face of the earth, that's a death threat and you ought to take it to the cops. Tell them about his weed business too. Maybe after that you won't have to deal with him for several years while he rots in prison.

Answer 5

call the cops ASAP!!!!!!

Answer 6

call me...at 911, nah im not a cop

but he seems fuked up, hes a crazy stalker..be careful mate

I hope you are safe

Answer 7

he's an immature nutjob, preying on young innocent girls. get yourself a restraining order, STAT  

Answer 8

he might be on drugs etc.

leave him.

he don't seem good.

and, he might abuse you (violence) in the future if he gets married with you.

Answer 9

YOU need to get on meds..you are crazier than him.

He is bipolar or nuts and you are worse talking to him on the phone taking his threats not reporting it to the police.  He could kill you and no one would ever know he has threatened your life. Get away from him...tell your family  and stop encouraging him. YOU are asking for big trouble. 2 days and all this drama  and what do you have in common with a 30 year old NUT??

Answer 10

Time to call the police.  There isn't a good reason in the world to let this go on.

Be sure to look up the station number and call that instead of 911, as you aren't in immediate danger.  Should he get close and nearly violent again, though, don't hesitate.

You can also call your phone company and talk to them about having that number changed.  It's brutally difficult for a stalker to stop using such easy access to you even if they want to.

I've also used large, intimidating friends as an escort to help shake undesirables.  A college division 1 wide receiver is a good friend to have, but use whoever you can.  It doesn't have to be a close friend, and if you don't have a linebacker at your disposal, any escort will help.  Most men are more than happy to escort you to your car if you explain the situation.  A couple of men have been nice (and brave) enough to walk directly up to the crazy and say, "Hey, man.  She wants you to leave her alone."  Remarkably, this WORKS.  I'm sure it hasn't worked for someone, somewhere, but it's worked every time for me.  They disappear.  Sometimes they even apologize!  This is amazing after I've said "buzz off!" myself ten million times, but somehow it's more effective coming from a guy.

Good luck and stay safe!

Answer 11

9-1-1 SHOULD BE YOUR BEST FRIEND RIGHT NOW...HE CAN GET LOCKED UP FOR THE POSESSION OF WEED...TELL THE POLICE ALL THE INFO U KNO ABOUT HIM AND CHANGE YOUR NUMBER!!! GOOD LUCK BE SAFE AND KEEP IN CONTACT!!!!( WITH US NOT HIM!!) =]

Answer 12

He sounds like someone I would like. Except for the stalking, which means he is desperate! Stalking is not cool, I agree DITCH this lil needy wimp.

Answer 13

Maybe you should call the cops or something. Because that is really scary. If he continues to bother you, I'd do something about it.

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Answer 14

Serious psychological issues.  Ignore him completely, keep your distance, and if he keeps bothering you get a restraining order.

Answer 15

He's a scrambled brained psycho, Thats why, Avoid this loser before he DOES get violent. Have some big dude friend have a "talk" with him. The cops wont do anything until he has already hurt you. You can keep track of his psycho calls and stuff, tho. write down everything, and take a pic of the texts or something.

Answer 16

omg, go to the police he could be dangerous