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I am confused and out?

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its 2 years since we got married. it was an arranged *** love marriagemy husband is a divorcee with two kids. (his first wife left the children and went with someone.for him 12 years of marriage life was a tragedy with his exwife. she cheated him. but her fate her boyfriend left her and she got the punishment.he suffered a lot in his previous life) i love and believe him very much and so does he. he is very much liked by everyone even a newcomer falls in his talk and becomes a friend. sometimes i dont like him too much friendly with the girls, not every girl, but some selected ones. i feel very disturbed and in my mind i ask a lot of questions for which i get confused and tensed. i console myself saying that i should not think negatively, but all in vain, i get tensed, disturbed all my works goes upside down. my husband directly finds out from my face that i am mood off, but as i am tensed that our relationship may have problem i try to hide the problems and lies to him some other matters. my husband often takes me out, he is like a good friend to me. i have even talked to him about this, he laughed at me, he told me talking to a girl does not mean having an affair. he told dont confuse yourself by thinking all these things. i beleive him a lot, but i feel scared . i dont know whats happening to me. after office he is always at home, never leaves us alone in the house. but i dont know what is happening to me

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  1. you have to trust him! just tell him everything you feel very friendly and hopefully your problem will solve

    Good luck!


  2. I think you should throw out any suspicion on this gentleman.He is right and you are wrong.He hasnt done anything to cause you to doubt his bonafides.Trust him completely and dont spoil a very happy marriage without any reason.Best wishes

  3. Feeling of insecurity can only be countered by having means of security. Think! what works for you. Try to do it.

  4. Please relax and let this man love you.

    I know it must be difficult with the kids and stuff....but he loves you!

    Get over your insecurities before they push him away.

  5. dont spoil ur family life in unnecessary thoughts.u also move freely with ur hubby's girl friends and their familys.make them family friends.

  6. you have the solution for your problem. He loves u so much, and he also loves u so much takes care of you then where is the problem. Don't get scared, he has an attitude which is liked by others which is really good and i believe u also like him because of this. He cares u. Do Yoga in the morning or in the evening and keep involving your self with him and the acitvities he does.  If you are scared, then it means you don't believe him and you don't love him, it is just a attaraction. Love does not have place for doubts, remember this.  Do you have kids from him.

    I think it is not a problem at all,  u just need change, change in you thinking, attitude and the way you look at him. Things will improve, it is challange.

    If you know the "Secret of Attraction" you will understand that, you just start thinking  and start feeling that you love him a lot and you believe him, becoz your life is the way you think.

    I hope if u practice this you will be beniffited. for further consulation you can always get in touch with me.

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