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I am confused please help me sort things out.?

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I leave in Nigeria. I finished high school 2yrs ago. my parents are separated, I wanted to study medicine in Nigeria but the only comfortable place is the private schools cos there is strike and cultism in the public schools so i went to Ghana to school and offered Biomedical engineering. During my first semester break, i realized the school is not wat we call a real University. it had a lot of problems to numerous to mention. When i came back 4 the winter break my dad said i should school in Nigeria(If not in Nigeria he wouldnt pay my school fees) until i am 20 and by then i would have almost finished my university. He promised me a car,a house and a laptop in my first semester and also my masters in any part of the world and i know he would do it. Any way the point is when i came back due to some reasons i realized i didnt want to study medicine again. I also realized i had the flare for fixing and repairing.But some times i still want to be a doctor. To tell u the truth as i am typing this, i dont know what i am saying i dont know what i want to be anymore.My mom says i should school where i want to but right now she doesnt have the cash for it until i dont know when this year(but its going to be this year) . Right now i am searching for a private school in Nigeria but there is none cos they have started a section already. and i cant wait till January cos i have waited 4 six months already, cos my dad and mom where arguing about where i would school but now its my choice and because of everything that has happened i travelled to another state so my mind would settled on what i want to be but it is to no avail. i have no answer and this is my second week away from them.(They have been seperated 4 over 10 years so i am not confused because of them) And i dont know of any councellor in Nigeria that could councel me besides i dont have cash to pay for their services and i dont want to ask my parent for the cash. The first problem is WHAT DO I WANT TO BE,the second is WHICH school. if u need to chat with me to help me out its rosabelle_f@yahoo.com. But i need help and i need it fast.

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  1. Your future career has to be the one which gives you the greatest happiness & satisfaction I feel. The school choice will then be easier for you to make because it has to be the best school which you feel will help you to get the best qualifications for what you want to do.

    So, I would make the career choice 1st, then the school choice.

    It is all a matter of making a list of priorities. What you want to do with your life should be at the top of your list.  

    I have heard that there is online counselling for anyone who wants it but I am sorry I don't know the link. You will need to google it to get that. I do hope this helps and remember, your future happiness is the best top priority. Good luck & best wishes. UK

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