I am crazy? In love? or just a crush?

Question

I have a best friend that I talk to all the time. I can tell him anything I'm thinking or feeling and he listens and understands. He also shares his life stories back to me and asks for advise from me. The thing is I also think of him in a sexual way and often fantasize of "playing around" with him. He was the first person I came out to and so far he has been understanding. He has had several girl friends so I know he is straight. I am so confused if I should tell him or not. Is this love, a crush, or something else?

Answer 1

I dont think u should risk your friendship. This does not mean, however, that you have to push yourself. Just take some time to think and u will realise that what you have is that u love your friend so much that you have become sexually frustrated with him.

As straight, i have done the mistake to tell my best friend that i liked him and guess what? we're not best friends anymore...

Answer 2

Most guy-girl best friends catch feelings for each other and usually the feeling is the same both ways.

Go for it, tell him how you feel.

Answer 3

You, my friend, belong to the community, which i commonly refer to as the, homosexual community.

Answer 4

it's better to tell about your feelings.