I am crazy obsessed?

Question

I really like this guy that i've known my entire life. Me and him have had things going on off and on. He is somewhat of a player though and talks and flirts with sooo many girls. He also does a lot more than that if you know what i mean. Whenever i see things on facebook that he talks to girls or makes sexual comments i get so pissed off and almost start crying. I really like this guy..i think i almost love him. We've never dated but he said he wants to once i get older. Problem is..he said that awhile ago and we used to talk all the time. Now i feel like we're drifting apart. I go insane and want to see him and talk to him and always feel like crying because we don't talk that much anymore. I hate feeling like this, but i can't give him up. Believe me i've tried. How can i stop feeling so down and jealous? Am i wrong for feeling this way?

Answer 1

start talking to him again....dont let him drift away from u

Answer 2

my best friend had a crush like that over a boy.. actually a lot of girls liked this guy. they say that it was like they were under a spell.. they didn't want to like him but they did. i don't know what to tell you because i'm not you or my bestfriends and i dont know how they stopped like him but eventually they just got tired of liking him.. you will find someone right for you one day.

Answer 3

well you should just forget about him and try to move on because someone like him is going to hurt you and make you really sad. if you cant find a way to get over him then just start to talk some other guys and eventually you'll start to like one of them and then you'll hear yourself thinking " why did i like this guy?" and you'll be amazed at yourself.