I am facing difficulty in social adjusment in my home land, after spending 10 years in usa for high education?

Question

I am facing difficulty in social adjusment in my home land, after spending 10 years in usa for high education?

Answer 1

Yes, another corrupted mind.   I win!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Hi,

My heart goes out to you... it must seem to you that you are at odds with every reason you have for returning to your native home.

I cannot but wonder that if you have been in the U.S. for a decade, maybe you have adjusted to our culture and in some corner of your heart, you are ready to put down roots here?  

It would seem to me that having spent a great part of your life going to school here  and focusing on a higher education that the next step would be to put your education to use here... After all, an U.S. education is really geared to our economy and culture, perhaps your chances of getting the profession (that you have worked so darn hard for) is far higher here than anywhere else.

Many people are 'migratory' in their intrinsic nature. You might be of this type. In which case it is natural for you to want to stay in the 'new world' where you have already carved out a way of life and are well on your way to success.

If the reality of returning to your native land is nagging at you, then seek advise from more than one person who can be objective about helping you to meet your goals. Try to weigh the pros and cons and make a decision that is based on logic.

Stay or leave? Keep in mind that with air travel the world is getting smaller. If you choose the U.S. as your home, your family and friends in your native land will have the opportunity to visit you here, and vice-versa.

Whatever you decide, I wish you many, many blessings (too numerous to count!).