I am feeling jealous and hurt all at the same time! Can you please help?

Question

There is this guy I have been talking to who always calls me and flirts with me and etc. But we aren't dating yet. We just flirt on the phone. And what I have noticed is that he doesn't call me as much lately. He is now starting to call my best friend alot. And that makes me feel extremely jealous and hurt!!!! I don't want to feel this way!!!!!! What do I do? School is about to start and the last thing I need to feel is miserable!

Answer 1

How long have you been flirting? If you never showed him that you were interested, that could be bad for you. I suggest that if you want to be with him that you start telling him your interested, and so if he really did like you, but sort of gave up because he thought it was pointless, he will come back to you. Do this quick before he starts developing feelings for your best friend. Don't make it subtle either. Tell him you want to hang out, and go from there.  

Answer 2

He doesn't sound like a good guy if he would do that to you. Try to find another guy to talk to so you can boost your spirits before the school year :)

Answer 3

Whatever you do don't let him know your getting jealous or hurt. That maybe why why he is doing this. Don't call him let him call you.

Answer 4

if you ask me i think he is a teaser h**l teas you thinking you can have him and then he just leaves he sounds mean besides the flirting which is cute hope i helped

Answer 5

If he's calling your best friend now, that should say a lot. If the person is interested, they'd stick around. However, perhaps, they didn't get the impression you were interested.

Call them up - and ask why they haven't phoned. Also, you should decide whether you really like them or if you like the 'idea' of someone flirting with you... sometimes we all get taken in by the charmers of this world :-)

Answer 6

Well why don't you trying telling your best friend how you feel and tell the guy how you really feel about him and see how it works out if he says no its his loss not yours  

Answer 7

Well, you should have gotten him while he was available.