I am feeling very left out.?

Question

my best friend is sooooooooooo popular cause she is so good at sports, but I`m not. i try very hard to do my best, but my natural ability is music and acting. and everyone that wants to hang with her really doesn`t want me along, but she does. so i follow. but i`m not cool enough to be acnoledged when i talk. and when they whisper to her, she refuses to tell me what they said. any advice.

Answer 1

Tell them all to bite your butt  

Answer 2

you should talk to her and tell her how you feel, if you're important to her than she would do something to make you feel better and not let you feel left out..but if she acts like nothings wrong I say to give her time with her "new" friends, let her see that it's a loss not to hang out with you, i mean if she was a real best friend, she would fight to hang out with you despite the wants of her new friends. i don't think it's cool for you to tag along while they whisper in front of you, that's so rude.

you got talent, you could excel in music and acting,you could even make new friends their and eventually she'll miss your company.

bottom line-have a talk with her be honest with what you're feeling

if she is your best friend she wouldn't let you tag along with her new buddies, she would be the first one to introduce you to her new friends regardless if you're good in sports or not, she should be proud to tell everyone that you are her bestfriend regardless if she was the most popular girl in school or just an ordinary student..

popularity fades..friends don't (if you treat them right)  right?

Good luck!

Answer 3

Just hang out with people you feel comfortable with.Life is too short to be someone else.And these people are definitely not the people you can be yourself with.You will have alot more fun with you hang out with artistic people who are talented in music and acting like you are.

Good luck

Answer 4

It sounds like you need to make new friends, ones that share your interests.  It's ok to have friends that are like her, but I think you'd feel more included with people who can relate to you better.  Plus, she should stick up for you if they are saying junk like that about you.  That's what good friends do, stick up for each other when your unable to do it yourself.

Answer 5

Try to show them that you're interesting and talented too. Show them a funny scene you just learned or something. I find that people in drama are really fun and interesting to hang out with; they're usually the most funny. If not see if you can get your friend to do the things that you enjoy doing. Hope I helped a bit 8]

Answer 6

You are cool in your own way.  So, who cares that you're not into sports, you are into something else that is just as cool.  Make some friends that are into what you like, let your friend hang with the sports girls.  You guys can still stay friends.  If you don't move on to other friends, then if she eventually starts hanging with them more, you will be alone.