I am fourteen and pretty sure i'm pregnant .. :/

Question

so i'm 14, 15 in november, and i'm pretty sure i'm pregnant, i'm not a dumb s**t, it was once, with a friend. any suggestions of what to do?

Answer 1

Tell your parents.

Did they ever meet the guy?

My sister is 18 and 7 weeks pregnant.

18 sounds old enough but it's not, trust me.

So yeah, heres the story,

my sister knew this guy from a while back

and they got in touch again,

then he started coming round the house

and some nights sleeping over.

My sister told me she'd slept with him a few times

and he had said that he wanted kids.

Mature for a 17 year old.

Anyway, so she told my mum she was late

and my mum had her suspicions so bought her a test

and she was.

Then my mum said she had to tell my dad

which I thought would be really bad to do.

He was like, 'Your kidding me? Well it happens.'

Then he told my sister not to worry.

Parents can surprise you.

I thought mine would go crazy over it, when they found out.

But they were really calm and cool with it.

Probably excited at the prospect of being young grandparents, lol.

So, the moral of the story is tell your parents. Your mum first, or the nicer one. My sister said our dad was nicest about it, but my mum knew first.

Or even tell an older relative such as a mature cousin or an aunt.

Answer 2

I'm sooo sorry. You should talk to your parents. Talking to a friend first may cause other people to find out. Your mom will help you. She may be mad. But she will get over it cuz mom's are caring.

Good Luck!

Then you have to tell the guy you had s*x with. But understand that he may not be up for it and may leave. But I hope that he doesn't for your sake.  

Answer 3

speak with an adult. definately go to the doctor and speak with them - its confidential and they wont tell anyone

if in america, go to planned parenthood for advice

Answer 4

no offense but him being nice and caring doesn't help at all.

Anyone could tell you anything! A baby scares people, a lot.

he could have told you that, then when you realize you are keeping the baby he can get scared and go into hiding. It takes a boy to get someone pregnant, but it takes a MAN to help care for and be there for the baby. However, if you want to keep the baby, you could consider adoption, since you are a little to young to ruin your life now, and you could also, have a grandparent or a parent adopt the child in case you don't like the thought of not being able to see it.

However if you aren't too sure, take a home pregnancy test, they are very accurate. And if the dreaded plus sign pops up, take the action you think you won't regret in later years.

Good luck to you, and I hope I helped ease your mind!

Answer 5

Hey, I know you are young but there is no reason you cannot be a good mother.  However, your babydaddy could be prosecuted for statutory rape.

Don't have an abortion, please!  It's killing a tiny human being.

http://www.100abortionpictures.com/Abort...

Answer 6

abortion. now. you're still a baby. The baby will destroy your life

Answer 7

Take a test.

If you are, then tell your parents and your 'friend'.

Then decide what you are going to do with the baby. I say adoption. :)

If you're not, then get on the pill or use a condom next time.

And you won't have this problem.

Answer 8

take the morning after pill

and maybe you should take a test!!!

Answer 9

take a test just to be sure.

its really up to u, of course tell him

but its up to u wat u do

but dont abort the baby, its not the baby's fault that u got pregnant lol

dont kill it

Answer 10

You need to tell your parents.

You won't be able to hide it if you decide to keep it.

Or have an abortion, but that needs to be discussed by you and the baby's father.

And nineteen?

I don't know what fourteen year old has nineteen year old friends, but if your parents find out it was him...

He could be charged with rape.

Answer 11

So this guy is nineteen? Good luck with that....

Answer 12

talk to your parents or doctor. hopefully your not, but if you are they can come up with a plan.

Answer 13

talk to your parents or and adult you can trust.

Answer 14

illegal.

Answer 15

Take a pregnancy test!! There is nothing you can do if you're only "pretty sure."  

Answer 16

Wow!! You should ask yourself will he stay around to help with the baby if you consider keeping it. You got to figure out how yo're going to split to your parents. GOOD LUCK with everything!!! Hope your life as a teenage parent works out. *And no, you're not a dumb s**t so dont pay attenion because people will say that* B-}

Answer 17

If you're smart, you would decide not to have the baby in your life, but rather put it up for adoption or get rid of it.

Keeping the baby, I don't think that's the greatest idea right now...

You can't take care of the child right now, you have an education goal to fulfill, then you can be talking about boyfriends, hubbies, marriage and then babies :) ...

I don't believe having children out of wedlock. I believe in adoption and maybe one biological child, but please, think about all of the orphans in this world who needs tender loving care. We have too many unwanted children, don't make another one.

Also, be sure to have safe s*x for next time. Your boyfriend/male-friend should prepare condoms if you guys were to ever have s*x, if he doesn't bring any, don't have s*x.

I remember encouraging my boyfriend to have s*x with me without a condom, because I was in the mood, and he was too, but he was in the right mind and totally rejected it until I got a condom, which was downstairs in my computer drawer, heh.  

Answer 18

have the kid?

Answer 19

well.... you're definitely going to have to plan ahead (unless you want an abortion) but it sounds like you don't (to me anyways...)

things to do

1. get income

2. talk to your partner about future

3. and breaking the news is going to be difficult (if you haven't already)

trust me on this i'm the same age (15 in October)

Answer 20

Calm down and talk to your parents.  Talking to people on here will provide little comfort.  They may be angry or upset but they are your parents and they will do what is best for you.  You will get your best comfort and counsel from your parents.  They will know what is best for you.  I'm so sorry you are going through this and I hope that you will decide to have the child :) Maybe put it up for adoption.

Answer 21

ok first off you need to tell the father of the baby. then break the news to your parents, they will be alot more supportive than you think. and third get prenatal care so you can have a healthy baby.

Answer 22

I'm not trying to be a d**k or anything but, I know so many girls like you who date over age men and have s*x. How you got "caught up in the moment". First of all it's illegal, your boyfriend can go to jail for statutory rape. Second, how did you meet this guy? Nine-teen? Pre-Marital s*x.

Now please answer mine, not as big of a problem as this but it would help me a lot. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 23

tell your parents. and you dont really seem that upset.

Answer 24

How sure are you that you are pregnant? Have you taken any pregnancy test? I am not going to lecture you or anything of that nature I know people make mistakes but you are awful young to be making grown up decisions. If you are sure that you are pregnant you need to tell your parents right away. So that you can start going to the doctor to make sure everything is okay, that you aren't having an ectopic pregnancy (where the baby starts to grow in your tubes rather than your uterus) ectopic pregnancies can kill you. Next you need to talk to your parents and the father of the baby and his parents if they are going to be involved and decide what is going to be best for your situation. whether you want to try to raise this baby or put it up for adoption. You really need to tell your parents soon though. I wish you the best of luck, if it turns out that you are not pregnant I would suggest you waiting before having s*x or having SAFE SAFE SAFE s*x. Don't rush things, you're only young once, enjoy it you have to make grown up choices soon enough.

Answer 25

wtf was up with ur response on my question??

obviously you are a s**t.

BUT you should go to a planned child hood, and make sure u get checked.

14 yr olds should be with 19 yr olds...

check out my question anyone..please

Answer 26

buy the test to make sure  

Answer 27

Tell your parents there isn't much you can do. Maybe get an aborsion or put the kid up for adoption if you or your family cant take care of it. But talk to an adult to help you figure it out and if you have strong feeling for something trust it.  

Answer 28

Go to planned parenthood, it's free and confidential. They will help you figure out what to do.

Answer 29

Stay away from the weird and bizarre Planned Parenthood, whatever you do.

Answer 30

Well, I am the same age as you and I would recommend that you do the Juno thing, and go to the store buy a pregnancy test, to confirm the pregnancy, and don't only take one, because it might be to early to tell. So when you find out you are for sure pregnant, eventually you will have to tell your parents. Then once you tell your parents, you make plans of what you want to do with the baby, and I would recommend putting the baby up for adoption.  So good luck with that! I hope I have helped you out a little bit!