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I am gettin so made fun of!! what do i do?

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i am getting a purity ring and the fact that i don believe in s*x b4 marriage i get made fun of even from my friend!!!!! am i weird or something!!!

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you aren't weird, you are a human being and we humans make decisions for ourselves. it might be tough if your young and your peers don't want to accept you for it but u know your gonna be the one with a life and a career , not a teenage mom on welfare.
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do not let people bother you over that

im getting one too

they may think it's funny until they get pregnant in high school

and then you'll see who's laughing at who
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NO! You are not weird at all. Your virginity is something that you can never get back so keep it as long as you can.
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Don't ever let another person make you question your morals or beliefs. It's wonderful to save yourself til marriage, and you'll have the last laugh when she's miserably dabbing Valtrex all over her body. Be you - and don't let anyone tell you that's wrong.
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This is why you carry a gun.
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no you're not weird

in fact i think u're doin the rit thing

just ignore the lil comments from your friend
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No, you're who you want to be. Good for you.

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I applaud you for sticking to what you believe is right!!!!!!!!!

You are not weird, but you may need some new friends. Friends are supposed to accept you for who you are. Do not give in to them or their teasing. You will be a much stronger person in the long run.
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No, just ignore them and they will stop saying anything. They are just jealous and saying c**p because it's different then what they know. Someday they will regret the decisions they are making with the people they sleep with.
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No, you're not weird just because you believe in something and stick to it.

Don't listen to others when they mock you. There can be a bunch of reason why they are being spiteful. Just ignore it.
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weird....no

intelligent....yes

who cares what they think because after you leave school and get married you will not see the majority of them again anyway
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Good for you! I think the fact that you have your morals and beliefs and stick to them is great. Don't doubt who you are, and if people make fun of you let them, they obviously don't have anything better to do. Why does it matter what they think? And what kind of friends make fun of who you are? Take your purity ring and hold your head high you are who you are and i think that's amazing (:
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Oh my goodness!! I believe in the same thing so don't worry. Every one is different and has their own beliefs! Stick to what you truly believe. No your not weird. You make perfect sense. Your safe. s*x before marriage (CAN)(not always) be dangerous and people get hurt from it. Marriage is the guarantee thing. He loves you enough to wait until marriage to share something special with you. There's nothing weird about it. Its just something not everybody does. I think you getting a purity ring is a good thing. Stand for what you believe in. Your friend should support you. Tell her/him what it means to you if you already havnt. Good luck. =]
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no, it shows that you have morals. and your "friend" isn't a friend if they don't understand that. find a new friend!
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No you are not weird. And I know lots of people who would agree with you including me. Just remind them that they'll be the ones dropping out of High School because they're pregnant, and you'll have great education, and a great husband. :]
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I may get one too. Your not wierd at all. That is your belief!! You should dump your "friend" if she is teasing you. She isnt a real friend.
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I don't know how old you are.

But I'm in high school entering my junior year and i don't believe in premarital s*x either. You are hanging out with the wrong friends with out sounding conceded i have a lot of friends and know all the kids in school they all except it.
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No you are not weird.  Your moral stance is to be commended.  If your friend cannot respect you for who you are and what you stand for she is not your friend.

She may be quite happy to indulge in those activities before she is committed to a relationship but as a friend she should respect your wishes and support those wishes in front of others.

Dump her as a friend.  It's now too late to undo the damage that has been done.
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you are not weird at all.... when you get made fun of by someone, calmly say, "i understand that you think my purity ring is stupid, but it is what i believe and if you have a problem with it, then i guess you are not really my friend." then they'll take you seriously. you could also add something like this. "at least i won't have to take care of a baby at sixteen like half the girls in our school."

you go girl!
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no some peope just dont understand it. if you act like its no big deal and theyr the wierd ones for making fun of you theyll drop it or keep teasing u in a friendly way.
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Dont care what they say, they might just be jealous they did not wait .
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You are not weird at all, just ignore your friends.
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No, it's quite perfect normal and the purity ring is a good sign. I, myself will wait in marriage.
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no your not weird at all, even the jonas brothers have them !

eventually they'll understand and come to terms with it,

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Don't listen to anybody, the fact that your getting a purity ring is good!
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If someone is making fun of you, they are not your friend. A friend understands the others beliefs and stands by them. You are doing the right thing. There is a lot of incurable STDs out there and sometimes a condom can't protect you. Keep yourself safe. Stick to your beliefs.
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No your not weird at all. Lots of people decide that waiting until marriage is the way to go. And there is nothing wrong with that.

But if you insist upon advertising to everyone that your getting a purity ring, or being very vocal about waiting until marriage, be prepared to be taunted.

Your s*x life is yours and yours alone. It's really no one's business, and I can't for the life of me understand why the "wait until marriage" group seem to be so vocal, and then seem to be so touchy or get upset when they are challenged or made fun of.

Don't tell everyone what the ring stands for if you don't want your views challenged, or you don't want to be teased.

Just stick to your guns, and/or tell her your s*x life is not up for discussion.
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No, theres nothing weird about that. In fact, I support abstinence.
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