I am going crazy!!! why does he do this??!!!?

Question

God my bf is driving me crazy!!!!

He is so insecure with himself! he keeps thinking hes going to loose me to someone else and I love him and only him! I am having to re assure him everyday that I am his and love him! He tells me hes scared becasue he's never felt this way about anyone and hes never had a gf as pretty as me so he's scared Ill find something better

I feel like Im to mature for this bs. Everyday he finds something to get mad about and accuse me of and since we have been dating I havent gave him one reason to not trust me and he even admits that. He just is so scared he dosent know how to relax and sit back and be happy.

I love him and dont want to loose him but all this drama is draining me. Is there anything else I can do?

Answer 1

Unfortunately you will probably always have to defend yourself and I don't think there will be anything you can do to change it.  At this point you've done all you can do by reassuring him.  You need to decide if you love him enough to always deal with his behavior.  Good luck to you.

Answer 2

Now is the time to ask is this really worth everything? Maybe it's not the right guy if he is treating you like this. Try and talk to him first though before doing anything drastic. Be blunt and get it out and if it's right, he'll understand.