I am going on holiday on my own tomorrow for a week and I'm really nervous - how can I cope with my nerves??

Question

Never been on holiday on my own before, well apart from when I did Camp America, but that was like an organised thing. I just don't know if I've got the courage to go through with it. What should I do?

Answer 1

Your bound to feel nervous especialy as its your first time. I feel nervous going on holl's even when its a family holl. Feel the fear and do it anyway!!! as its the only way to get the fear to go!  You will feel sooo much better if you go.  I bet when you get there and you start perhaps going on day trips or meeting other people, chatting to your neighbors, etc you will be sooo glad you went.  even if you spent the whole holl by yourself, you can still enjoy it and use it as some introspection time to get to know yourself better.  Try meditating! Thats great for helping with nerves and helping people to focus and stay calm. Maybe you will meet your soulmate while on holls, its happened to other people. Ask your guardian Angel to keep you safe and to guide you and give you the strength to do this, Angels sometimes have to be asked before they can help.  Best of luck, I'm sure you will be fine and you will love it x

Answer 2

well done. I am newly seperated and trying to pluck up courage to go out on my own on bank hol. You have given me the courage enjoy your hol let us know how you get on. x

Answer 3

Go for it i admire your courage to do this be careful and have a brilliant time

Answer 4

i'm thirteen and i've been away on my own MANY times:: on vacation, school trips, camp, etc. etc.

just find things that help you cope with your nerves--

like for me it's things like listening to jonas brothers (that always calms me down),

hugging teddy bears,

talking on the phone,

etc. etc.

Answer 5

Wow well done you are definitely sooo brave!! :)

If you've already booked it etc then that'd be the hardest bit for me!!

Why not take a bunch of books and things to do so you can keep yourself occupied?

If you're going to a sort of 'holiday' place with other tourists then you may even make some new friends.

Good luck I hope you have a fantastic time!! :)

Answer 6

you'll be fine just think how good about yourself youll feel when its over you wont be able to wait for your next trip youll be asking youself why you we worried at all

Answer 7

Like when you jump into the water  to swim  you feel nervous in the first time you may feel a little nervous of the new place you will visit but think of all the excitement  associated with that you will feel confident and face the situation.

So be courageous and go alone no problems will come.

you get a lot of help if you can put the nerves together.

Answer 8

Just think of all the good things you are going to do. Oh and have a good holiday.

Answer 9

OOhhhhh how exciting i think you should try and put your mind to something more useful to you like the type of things you can do there and the different types of people you will meet, i wish i had this chance, its going to be great your travelling and seeing somewhere beautiful so just lay back chill out and enjoy yourself!!!!

P.S   where r u going to?????

Answer 10

A normal response to stepping out on your own. Try to enjoy yourself. Decide what you would like to do in advance and try not to do too much. Plan in advance what you can and be safe. You may surprisee yourself and have the best vacation ever. You are on your own so you set your own agenda.