I am going to a out to eat thing with friends should i take one of my kids or leave them all with the sitter!!

Question

I have three adopted kid one is 9 mo another is 11 mo and 2 yr

the 9 mo old and 11 mo old were adopted 2 mo apart

Answer 1

i think you should take the little one just incase. I will probably sleep all the time but it's better safe then sorry. And the other two you can leave with a trustful friend or someone you know that will take care of your kids.

Answer 2

I think if you have a reliable sitter,why not take a little time for yourself! Enjoy your night out,then get back to the kids-have fun!

Answer 3

If you want to just have some adult time, leave the kids with a sitter without guilt (or with Dad without guilt).  It's ok to take some time with girlfriends to talk to a grown up and just take a little break.

If you don't need the adult time,and have the money, go ahead & bring the kiddos with you.  Your friends might really enjoy spending time with your kids & the kids would surely enjoy it.

If you wanted to, you could take the 9 year old and have it be some special mom & child time with mom & her friends.  It can make a child feel really special to do that sometimes...especially if there are little wee ones running around.  :-)

Answer 4

They yours why not take all of them.

Answer 5

Seriously, Sarah.  You need help as a parent.  As I have said several times before, please, for your children's sakes, join a mother's group or adoption group or get counseling.  If you will post the city where you live, I will find groups and support for you.

Answer 6

spelling problem. make sure they all go far in their studies

Answer 7

Personally I have also read your other questions but even without that Why do you keep calling them your adopted kids?

I am adopted and was adopted at 6 month My parents never ever referred to me or my sister who was adopted as well from another family into ours as adopted. They loved us as if we were their own flesh and blood

I have to really seriously wonder if in fact you have kids

As a single Mom  I can assure you that if you were dealing with kids this age adopted or not on a daily basis and your had access to a reliable and trusting sitter then there would not be a question you would take a hour out go to eat with your friends and come home refreshed You would leave them all with a sitter.

Now If you have no reliable trusting sitter again No question you would take them all with you

I have to seriously question if in fact you even have a child. Let alone 3 very young ones I almost am certain NO agency left you adopt as a single mom this many close together especially if they spent a hour talking to you Unless you are one heck of a actress because just in the short posts you have made I would have took off in another direction tossing your application as I went You seem to be in need of attention and validation that you are not getting in life and therefore are trying to find it online

Answer 8

why on earth did you adopt so many, so close in age, at the same time?