I am going to move i cannot stand living next door

Question

one day she came round asked to cut my trees down as she could not get enough sun, this was after a social worker told me she kept calling her all the time,she told her to go away, she has been to headmistress and health visator about me. I said no to the trees so my grandson rushed in said she kept staring at him, she watches me come in and out, she pretends to be respectable and decant yet she had a man crying outside shouting out i love you to her over and over again while her fella was at work, and she gossips about me to people. i am going to move i hate being watched all the time, what is wrong with her, after that bloke did that she came out in her garden like nothing had happened gardening I would feel shame if that happened.

Answer 1

You can change no one else, only ourselves.

Accept people as they are, ignore them or indeed move on.

Answer 2

You have made the right decision, Chum!  MOVE. You don't need

this kind of hastle.

Answer 3

I sympathise, I once had awful neighbours. they made me ill, literally. She waited till I had washing out then lit a huge bonfire, parked so I couldn't get my car out. It was terrible and yes I eventually moved.

By rights its she who should move but that wont happen. that sort never do.

Its a shame you have to leave your home but for your own sanity its probably for the best.

Answer 4

If you cannot change your tolerance level, the only answer may be to change address.

If your trees are actually blocking her light, she has a point.

Answer 5

Ummm, whats the question??