I am going to the Dr's to get checked out to become pregnant should my husband come along too or ?

Question

should i get checked out first then him??? we have been trying for a year now!! I really want to be a mummy and my hubby really wants to be a daddy!!!

Answer 1

I went last month, and they made a big deal out of the fact my husband didn't go!!!  They wanted to do a sperm analysis on him, so I would definitely suggest having him come along!  Goodluck!

Answer 2

I would for sure have ur hubby checked out also, if not him first, then you.  It is much easier for them to check him than it is to ck you.  Lots of fertility issues actually have to do with the guy anyway.  And if it's not "his boys" then you'll know that u should invest the time and money to get tests run on you.  I hope that helps.  Baby dust 2 ya!!

Answer 3

yeah bet he wants to go too, besides its always nice to have a hand to hold! good luck x

Answer 4

If he wants to come, then definitely. You're trying to enlarge your family- he should definitely be involved. Good luck!

He should be there to support you as well, and vice versa.  

Answer 5

Aside from the obvious physical exam that you would recieve from the doctor, there is a lot of advise that applies to both male and female prospective parents.

Both of you will want to cut down on drinking, stop smoking and drugs, take a multivitamin with folic acid, eliminate excess weight, start an excercise program and be tested for STDs.

What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Answer 6

Since you both want a baby you should go together.That way any question you both have can be discussed with the DR

Answer 7

I think it would be good to go alone because it would be getting his hopes up if you're not pregnant. If you are that'd be awesome though :) but if not and you go by yourself what would feel better other then to go home into your hubbys arms :)

Answer 8

well theres no harm in your hubby going too.