I am having a Surprise 21st bday party for my fiance! I need help!!?

Question

I am having a surprise bday party for my fiance next month only thing is... he wants to have one for himself!!! How do I get him to change his mind without being obvious? Also what are some ideas for decorations and things. I thought about the pimp and hoe thing but it doesnt really fit our kind of style we are more "preppy" I guess you say... I need ideas on anything and everything!!! Please help!

Answer 1

For a theme do Golf Pros and Tennis Hoes if you are a preppy couple. As for getting him to change is mind set up a fake invitation to an event for his family or something and make sure his parents and family go along with it.

Answer 2

Find out who he is inviting to his party and talk to them and have them tel him they are busy then you recruit them into your party and get all your ideas for the party from his closest freinds...works everytime.