I am having a big problem with my roommate, please help me!?

Question

My roommate is also my co-worker. Sometimes she is so nice and friendly and she is ALWAYS upbeat at work. Recently she became friends with a girl I used to be close to. I know they talk about me behind my back and I know that she is two-faced. Whenever she is home from work she is just plain rude to me. We can't even talk to each other unless other people are around. I don't know why she is so nice when there is a group but she turns mean when it's just me.

She puts me down a lot when I ask questions. Often times she makes me feel dumb when I ask her about how her day was. When I ask her what is wrong or if she is feeling okay she always responds with "yeah i'm just tired," and I know that is a lie.

My question is.. what should I do? Should I just stop caring and let her go on with her life, or should I keep trying to be her friend? It's really stressful living and working with her. Luckily we are both going back to college in about 2 weeks but until then I need some coping methods! Thank you so much.

Answer 1

Print out information about bipolar disorder and leave it on her desk.

Answer 2

If she is always tired and makes you feel like c**p constantly then avoid her as much as poss for the next two weeks. Schedule your life so you see her as little as poss.