I am having this huge problem.?

Question

okay i'm 14 a girl and bi.

I liked this str8 girl since 4th and now im going to 8th sept 3.

She was suposed to move over the summer and now it turned out she didnt. and the whole summer I worked hard getting over her. But everytime someone says her name or talks about her I go right back to liking her. and now during school seeing her I am just gonna go right back to where I was.

What can I do to stop myself from falling for her again? I mean as soon as I see her im gonna go right back to liking her.

I rele hate her too. but my love for her out weighs the hate.

Answer 1

well you are too young to be in love with this girl. You may be crushing on her but it is not love by much definition.  At your age you have plenty of time to be not just so focused on one girl.  Don't stress yourself out about it so much.   You have plenty of time to find love, don't be in such a hurry.  

Answer 2

I don't know why you hate her, but I do not think you can not hate someone and love them at the same time. Talk to someone you trust about this situation and get their opinion. make a list of all the things you dislike about her, and one of all the things you like about her, and see which side wins, if the dislike side wins, seriously leave her alone and find someone else to love.

Answer 3

imagine her being like rele ugly and fat every time you see or hear about her lol

im thirteen and like this girl who went on to highschool, still trying to get over it cuz i think she is strait

but yeah i kno the feeling cuz me and sum other ppl talk about her cuz she duz like the stupidest things lol and i hav to try not to think about how much i love her

Answer 4

There is a fine line between love and hate. She is straight, and although you love her or adore her, she is into boys. You just got to suck it up and look elsewhere. There is no magical potion or fix to end your feelings, you just have to roll on.

Answer 5

well, are you sure she is 100% straight anyway? It is not at all uncommon for people to find out later in their life, even late in their life (and you are only 14 so there is still room for growth) that they are attracted to the same s*x. When I was 13/14 I had crushes on my friends too, turned out one of them was bisexual all along (as I found out years later). Your own identity may change too with time and experience.

The best way to move on is to move on...to another person. Find someone else to occupy your mind and time. Even if it's just talking to someone online who can share in your experience.