I am in a hard stiuation with my parents

Question

When i was 17 years old i meet a girl, and we started to go out. As time went on my parents made me go under deep depression, because they never let me leave the house accept to go to school. Then i try ed to kill myself, and was sent to a mental hospitial, she stuck with me through a lot of difficult times. Now i am 19 and she i going to be 18 years old she wants to go to college with me in baltimore, we have both been going to community college while we are in highschool. The problem is that both my parents do not want me to move in with her. Yet when they went to college they meet when they were 19 and moved in with each other.

My parents dont let me have friends, get a job, or even go outside of my house.

I have no one to talk to accept my girlfriend and i dont want to talk to her about this.

I feel like killing myself again, and i really dont know what to do

someone please help me

Answer 1

Is there any other adult family member you can talk too or maybe being you have access to a computer call a suicide hot line and talk to a councilor. Keep searching online for numbers to call and get help. Maybe your parents will relax once you are an adult who can move out.

Answer 2

get a job, pay your own bills and schooling and be on your own.  your girlfriend can get a job and split the bills with you!!!

Answer 3

first of all;; stop tryna kill ya self because if you succeed && exactly kill yaself;; then who is gonna be there for ya girlfriend... no one.... she needs you as much as you need her....

second;; i think you should move to baltimore (&& im not just sayin that because i live there) but because its your life.. your decision...

20 years from now;; you dont want to look back && regret not going all because of what mommy && daddy say (no offense)... be a rebel... live ya life... but just be smart about the decisions you make....... && remember to live life to the fullest becuase life is too short :]

i really want to know what u decide to do... so

k.i.t

Answer 4

Kick 'em in the nuts. Violence solves all problems!

Answer 5

just  talk  to  them

Answer 6

hi.

you need to talk to someone - someone with no personal connection to you or family - like a therapist or counsellor.  Can you reach out to a teacher at school?

Try to keep some perspective. You are 19 and you have your entire life ahead of you.  Things are rough now, but they will get better.  I have had feelings like you do and I got help from outside sources.  Please Please even call something like kids help phone.  Once you move out on your own you can make your own choices.

My personal advice would be for you to live on your own or with room-mates not with your girl-friend.  If you are that much in love, it will sustain time and you will always have each other.  I would encourage you to put the focus on yourself and enjoy yourself and have fun!!!! Living on your own is a good way to ge to know who you really are and to love the true you.  You can not fully love someone else until you know and love yourself.

Please call someone. Even if it is 911.

Answer 7

d**n life sucks, you can run away though

Answer 8

Parents Suck cat balls thats all I can say Seriously EVERYONES PARENTS SUCK

Answer 9

well, ur over 18, and if u are going to live on ur own does it really matter if they want u to move in together or not, ur an adult and u can do as u please, plus, they really can't tell u no cuz then they would be hypocrites, just do what u want and hope ur parents eventually understand, u have to live ur life, cuz they are not gonna do it for u anymore

Answer 10

why cant you move out..you are 18+ meaning you are a legal adult...get out of the house and move in with ur gf

Answer 11

Well, this is a hard one. It would be wrong for me to tell you to go against your parents, however, when you turn 18 they legally cant stop you from doing anything! Maybe you should try talking to your parents about this and tell them how it is making you feel. They may not know that they are making you feel this way. If that doesnt work you really need to talk to a professional. Killing yourself is not a normal feeling and should never be ignored. If you believe in God, please pray to him for your situation and feelings!

Answer 12

ok i know that this is not the best advise but its what i would do. just don't tell them.

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