I am in college engaged to a college girl, but I slept with another girl 2 nights ago, what can i do really?

Question

I was badly drunk and I mistakly slept with one of her friends, what can i do really?

Answer 1

You aren't married......

Some professionals actually suggest that the adult thing to do is that if this is TRULY a one night stand... and it WILL DEFINITELY NOT continue... then you shouldn't tell your significant other.

Some people say honesty is the way to go, I personally think saving her the pain of knowing what an a*****e you are would be best.  Just make sure you end the relationship :)

Answer 2

well cheating on her obviously means that you are not ready to make a full time commitment to her. i would tell her because as a girl its always better that way... andbesides you dont want her friendto break it to her before you do.

Answer 3

It's time for a confession but don't be surprised if she dumps you.  If this is your behavior while engaged to be married then I really doubt she will trust you.  Not a real good way to start off a life time committment now is it?

Answer 4

How can you "mistakenly" sleep with someone? Oh d**n...thats not an excuse.

Your just pathetic. She does not deserve you at all!  

Answer 5

be honest with her. She deserves at least that much. Let her make the decision whether or not she wants to take your cheating a** back!  Good luck with that!

Answer 6

The only thing you can do is be honest. It's always the best way out...if there is an out!

Answer 7

No one's p***s mistakenly falls into someone's v****a, sorry that is not going to fly with her. If there was absolutely no way that she was ever going to find out I would tell you to never tell her or anyone about it ever. Why hurt her and destroy a relationship on a huge mistake that you obviously regret. Better for you to live with the guilt as a reminder to never let that happen again. However, you my dear made the ridiculously bad choice of sleeping with one of her friends. Two huge no-nos. You have no choice but to do the right thing and tell her. You have already betrayed her, you owe it to her not to put her in a humiliating position of having to find out from someone else. All you can do is deal with the pain and the hurt, and hope that you 2 can possibly work it out over time. If not chalk it up to a lesson learned and stay away from alcohol if you can't control yourself.

Answer 8

Realize that the engagement is probably off when she finds out and if it is not, realize you don't want to be married to some silly little girl who thinks that her future husband cheating on her is okay, well....then again, maybe you do, but eventually you'll regret it.  

Answer 9

Only one thing to do: The right thing to do is tell her the truth before she finds out herself. Try and work through it if you still want to be engaged to her. You must have some feeling for her if your engaged, so you owe it to her to be honest. If you were drunk and you still remember what happen you weren't drunk enough!! And that is never an excuse. Good luck.

Answer 10

Drunk isn't an excuse you knew your were drinking and you knew what you were doing. You need to tell your engaged girl what you did and let her choose from there.

Answer 11

Tell her about it and that you know you are a s***k and you are not worthy of her and you don't know what a committment is.Play yer stupid card cuz thats what you are!

Answer 12

First of all being drunk is not an excuse and you know it and if you were that drunk you would not have been able to perform.  Nice try !.  And doing her friend is unforgivable.  

If you really want to do the right thing, break it off with your fiance.  Because when she finds out, and she will, it will be over anyway.

The same thing goes for her friend.  She might as well stay away from her because she will want nothing to do with her either.

You are not ready for marriage.  So party and have fun !  And I hope you end up with someone that does the same thing to you some day.

What goes around comes around.  Your fiance deserves so much better then you.  

Answer 13

Break off the engagement for now.  Talk to your fiance and see if you are able to work it out and move forward or move on.  You are not ready for marriage and drinking is no excuse.  Sorry.

Answer 14

Tell her the truth and hope to h**l she understands which she probably won't. Screwed up bro. Now you have to deal with it.