I am in college engaged to another college girl, but i like someone else, so what can i do really?

Question

what can i do really?

Answer 1

Realize that you aren't ready to be engaged, and don't understand the first about love.

Break off the engagement with the girl, and avoid the other girl like she is walking Veneral Disease.

Stay alone and concentrate on your studies, so that you can learn to appreciate you might have had with girl number 1.

But who knows maybe you will never be the marrying type either.

Answer 2

You can be honest with yourself and her. don't start something you can't finish !!

Answer 3

Do the thing that you feel good with for to be happy in life!

Answer 4

Do what makes things right.................be a man, and break off the engagement.  

You don't have to mention you met another if you don't want to, but let her know your heart doesn't lie with her any longer.

Do it soon, so she isn't even more into wedding plans.

Answer 5

thats why you got engaged to begin with - to make sure it was the right person

its sorta like a trial run before the big event,just more serious than boyfriend/girlfriend

well what you need to do if you are serious about the other person is break your engagment

but take a look at the big picture first and make sure your getting what you want and will be happy in the long run

Answer 6

break off the engagement and stay single for a while.  I am a woman and I am not putting you down. Far from it!  You are being honest and you are simply not ready for marriage and that doesn't make you a bad guy.  You are doing the right thing by being honest about marriage at this point in your life.  Your soon to be ex doesn't need to know details about finding another girl attractive. That is too much info and you want to break things in a clean manner so she can move on with as little heartbreak as possible. Simply tell her that there is nobody and you are interested in pursuing your studies without the distraction of relationship drama.  Your chances of doing well in college is better without entanglements anyway

Answer 7

Break off the engagement. How crushed would your fiancee be if she found out you loved another girl? Stop it now before it escalates.  

Answer 8

Thats why you are engaged, to test the waters. You can do what you want.

Answer 9

well if you really like this other person i say go for it but make sure you tell your girlfriend you no longer want to be in the relationship its best to do it now before you get married

Answer 10

Honestly.. you need to break off the engagement. If you need to ask yourself "what should I do." that means you are not 100% in love and committed to your fiancee. It is just not right. If you are in love with the girl you're engaged to, you should always try to avoid situations like the one you're in. Don't let yourself fall into situations with other girls, and you won't feel like this. But, as far as your fiancee is concerned, she is probably 100% committed to you, but you aren't to her. The marriage would never work.

Answer 11

choose.