I am in love with a girl she is accepting all my gifts , but when it comes to talks she is ignoring me .?

Question

all i can do is calling her and she is sometime talking and sometime not receiving my call . when ever i try to talk some romantic , she litreally ignore that thing , i cant understand what kind of a girl she is , she is a doctor and living in other country .. please kindly provide me with a great suggestion , that shall i continue my relationship with her . please advise

Answer 1

Is this one of those overseas internet dating things? If so, be aware that you are likely to be dealing with a person who is cheating you.

Answer 2

THE MUST HAVE GIVEN U NICK NAME.... BAKARA. GO AHEAD

Answer 3

DUDE she is using you! I know someone like that and they are not together now. Get away from her. Want to know if she really loves you stop buying gifts. Also I know someone who did this with out of the state dating and he acted like a  girl...  He kept all the gifts and disappeared.

Answer 4

She must be having her PMS's, Try when she's not Ovulating.... Stop Fantasising about her man.... She's not worth you... See, I think whatever anyone advises you to try harder is telling you all c**p. it's Infatuation, Guys are Fools and Girls Take Advantage of it.Recently a Hindi Movie Called Gangster has been released.... The Movie is c**p, but the Moral of the story is worth pondering! Try and take lesson from me or the movie.... Think of yourself and achieve your goals in life.... Be a better person, she'll notice you and herself will come to you, if she has brains.... BOL

Answer 5

she is just shy when it come to this kind of things give her a break and more time to consider try not to ask her again otherwise she will probably find you irritating.

Answer 6

she's a user

Answer 7

Keep sending her expensive gifts.  Cash is best.  When you run out of money you will then realize that you are a fool.

Answer 8

I would say she is very smart, accepting your gifts generously and ignoring you.

Answer 9

Keep on sending valuable gifts and do not talk till she marries someone else.

Answer 10

If she is not speaking to you then maybe you should get the hint and stop calling her.  I doubt it if you can even say you have a relationship with her.  If she is accepting gifts from you, then she probably likes the gifts that you send her but that doesn't mean she also likes the giver of the gift.  Move on and look for someone else who is more receptive to you.  Good luck!

Answer 11

I think it is a one side affair.

Answer 12

haha your a sucker, dude stop sending her gifts

Answer 13

She's using you.  Find someone who wants you, not your gifts.

Answer 14

She may not be a doctor, she may be having a gift shop. Be careful.

Answer 15

exactly keep being a sucker, then you will realize she is taking advantage.lol!!!

Answer 16

What did you expect? You need to establish a relationship before romance. Women are complicated enough without you trying to have something that isn't there. So here are questions/suggestions to clarified your relationship:

Why did you get her gifts. Gifts can not buy love, so stop giving her gifts. Be yourself and sadly accept the facts.

Answer 17

she may not even be a girl..have you seen the pic or talked to her

Answer 18

You not a fool u just like her too much i'm not going to critisize u, wat u need to do is stop with the gifts and stop callin, send her a letter explainin wat ur intentions r if she feels the same way then u got it if u don't get an answer, then just move on, and if she do start callin u don't fall head over hill just act cool n play hard to get and always finish the phone call first by tellin her u gonna let her go n u'll talk to her later keep her guessin

Answer 19

She is using you and is not a nice women to do this to you. I would not continue my relationship with her. A nice women would not do this.

I used to have men who liked me and would want to buy me things one wanted to by me Diamiond rings and a Car I told him no because I did not want to have anything other than friendship and did not want to be labeled a user. I  felt they were trying to buy me scared me right off.

Answer 20

Sounds like she is taking advantage of your generosity. You're trying to buy her and she isn't falling for it. Maybe she isn't as interested in you as you thought or maybe she has met someone else. If you don't want to stop your relationship with her, stop buying her gifts and stop calling her. It's her turn to want to talk to you, if she calls--she just might be worth it.  Or simply just ask her "What does our relationship mean to you?" Also, BEWARE long distance relationships burn out very easily, and most of them don't work out.

Answer 21

Hey there. That girl is only taking advantage of you.

She knows that you like her for you are always giving her gifts. You know, move on and find someone better. Find someone who's not materialistic. Someone who appreciates your gifts even though they are not that expensive.You know, and please remember: YOU CAN"T BUY LOVE.