I am in love with my bestfriend. Some say i just love her no im in love with her. She is bisexual and..?

Question

i have never messed with a girl before. She has my heart and i cry over her cause i cant be with her. I fell in love with her heart and personality and she always there for me. She said im stuck with her as her bestfriend but i am so jealous of her when she talks to guys and girls. she gets jealous at me to. but she knows im straight but i would date her though. it just hurts me bad cause she just want to be friends. I am the only one that helps her out so much . I would do anything for her. what can i do? i just cry because i love her so much and we can do anything about it. btw she knows how i feel. she said we are bestfriends and i just have to get over it. but i just cant...help me please.

Answer 1

so....what do you want? you want her to change? or do you want to change?

you're in love and you're not willing to choose against your orientation and, from what you've said, she doesn't see you as gf, but as bff.

nothing can be done, grl. so either accept that and move on - with her as friend or don't accept it and be miserable and probably drive her away.