I am in my early 40s and and am starting to think I am g*y, how do I know?

Question

I am in my early 40s and find myself thinking more and more about men both sexually and romantically. I have been with some men in the past, but they were only passing sexual flings. I How can I tell if I have moved further onto the g*y end of the spectrum?

Answer 1

Maybe its ur mid life crisis.

Go to a g*y bar and hang out.

Answer 2

i beleieve, that to find out if your g*y, you need to ask yourself, does the p***s turn you on??? my black friend said U g*y...

Answer 3

do you like the p***s or the v****a? or both you could be bisexual?

Answer 4

Hello,

        I have the same feelings as you and i have been with several men in the past. I also have a passion for dressing up etc and i feel my fem side coming out more. If you can go and explore these feelings as you aint got nothing to lose! Good luck.

Answer 5

I'm pretty sure being sexually attracted to the same s*x is a sign of being g*y....

no no no thats sarcasim

yah but seriously if you like guys....

Answer 6

g*y means HAPPY.

If you have sexual feelings for someone of the same s*x and you are only sexualy attracted to men then you are a homosexual.If you are sexualy attracted to both male and female then you are bisexual,if you are only sexualy attracted to to females then you are hetersexual.You

are in your fortys now man,you should know this by now.What do you want to have meaningfull,romantic relationship with, a male or female?  

Answer 7

Sexuality is a fluid thing.

Have you every heard of the bell curve?? Well, a bell curve looks like the outline of a bell, when it comes to sexuality only 10% of people fall on the sides of the bell, that being 100% hetero or homo.

Now the other 90% fall somewhere along the bell curve either being 90% g*y 10% straight or whatever combination you wish to think of.

That's what I think has happened to you, you are in the other 90% and are just becoming more aware of your feelings.

Don't let other people just tell you it comes down to whether you like p***s or v****a because it is so much more complicated that.

People are deep things, I doubt that defining such a large piece of yourself based on just outward genitalia does you justice.

I identify as g*y, since I am PHYSICALLY attracted to men and not women. But, that's just for ease of a word. In reality I am much more attracted to women on a mental level.

I hope that helps ease your worries and concerns.

Anyway, what do you have to lose in exploring yourself? =)

Answer 8

You need to explore and see maybe your Bisexual. I am. Life is beautiful. What do you think about men the most? What comes to your mind most the time? I am also in my 40s. So I think I know

what your going through.

Answer 9

does it feel good to get stuff rammed up ur as*? aha