Hmm, interesting. I am in my late 20s. And a very confident women per se but i am not a tom-boy. Plus, for someone reason i dont like makeup either the only thing i use is lipstick. In addition to that, i cant act dumb blonde too, i have been thru rough patches in my life and i have become strong (and i m proud of it). But i work really hard on my physique as in i excersice i want a good s**y physique. I am not into women i.e. not a L*****n. But i am unable to have a successful relationship as well, reason being deep down i am afraid of being deceived and cheated or abused thats why i dont have the guts to go out on a date or flirt with someone.
i m in a quagmire, i want a relationship really romantic one but i m like sandra bullock in ms.congeniality. (ye, that explains my situation) i dont want to be like every second women who does nothing but concentrates on looks. I want to enjoy and excersice my rationalization, confidence etc. And for some reason, i may sound childish at home but i m very confident at work and very different wwith frnds.
Help me, what should i do? should i change myself and be uncomfortable in my own skin but get a romantic life. or should i stay as is and let people think i m not feminine enough.
thanks in advance for answers
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