I am in the process of Adopting a foster child, she has allot of mental issues, and help from adoptive parents

Question

I would like to get ideas on what to request from the adoption agency as far as support , and any future needs for her. In Florida.. thank you

Answer 1

There are things you can do on your own. You can look up support groups for adoptive parents, for parents of children with mental problems. These are things to ask your agency about. These support groups should be able to give you information on doctors, problem solving, educating your child, and even what to do in extremely stressful times. If you cannot find a support group, start one, you will be helping your child, you, and many others. Just think of topics that are essential to raising your child and get professionals to speak at your meetings to help you. You just have no idea what a POSITIVE SUPPORT GROUP can do. It mus be POSITIVE.

Answer 2

If you aren't already her foster parent, ask social services what her normal foster rate is.  Most agencies will base the post adoption subsidy on the foster rate (usually you will receive less that the foster rate).

Do some research into your insurance.  Ask about the mental health benefits so you know what will be covered. Also ask if her current counslor or treatment program is covered by your insurance.

Make sure you get her medicaid card, even if your insurance covers her. Use your insurance as the primary and the medicaid as the secondary.  If your insurance changes or if she needs additional coverage you'll want to make sure she gets what she needs.  I don't know the laws in FL, but medicaid might cover her until she's 21.

Try to pre-plan for other things she might need.  Depending on her caseworker, you might have to really be specific in order to get a decent subsidy.

Do you have a lawyer?  Your lawyer can probably tell you what FL will NORMALLY give.  They might offer post adoption counseling for the entire family.  Take advantage of it, even if you think you won't need it.  It will be good for everyone!

Also, if you haven't already, look for some local adoptive family support groups.  You'll find a lot of people that can give specific advice on how to advocate for your daughter.

I hope this helps.  We're in Virginia waiting on final approval of a 12 yo boy that is in another state.  So we're going through this now, too.  We plan to use his subsidy to create a college fund so that by the time he is 18 we will have a good amount stashed away for his education.