I am jealous of my friend????

Question

my friend is so lucky shes so likable everyone wants to be her friend...xhe dresses nicely...she doesalot of sports(im doing sports to but shes better)she has a nice house her parents are cool...she has 2 dogs andi realy want 1 but dont have 1 ...shehas a pool...how can i stop everyday im really jealous!!

Answer 1

i never hate in myfriends and i would b uncomfortable if i thought my friend was hating on me. u have to think that u will have all those things one day to nothing is out of reach. try 2 change

Answer 2

Just stop.  That is how.  Just be glad you are friends with her.  Quit trying to be her and wish you were like her.  Just be yourself.  People will like you too if you have your own identity and don't try to copy her.  Did you ever think that there might be someone else out there that thinks the same of you?

Answer 3

Things....stuff...doesn't make the person honey. You are probably a good person inside and those things wouldn't change your life either way. Be happy with who you are.

Answer 4

get like her, please mark me best answer :)

Answer 5

She won't be your friend long if you continue to feel this way about her.

So what if she's better in sports than you. I don't see you saying your parents are jerks, so your parents are average people working to support you, giving you what they can "afford" to give you.

Look at it this way, you go to your friends house and she "shares" all her material possessions with you. You get to play with her dogs, swim in her "parents" pool (she doesn't pay for it), and be around her enjoying having a good time. Your feelings are not invisible, others will surely pick up on them (including her) and then soon you'll be on the outside looking in. Only you can control your feelings and thoughts, and if she's a good friend seems kinda petty to be mad about what she has and you don't.

Nothing in life is fair, you work hard to get what you can. If you continue to have these feelings you'll only set yourself up later to be miserable in adulthood. Get control of your feelings, be grateful you don't have a friend who looks down her nose at you because you don't have what she has and enjoy your youth while you still can!~