I am just so cunfused please help me!!?

Question

Ok, i am kinda imbarresed about this but here i go. im only 13 (almost 14) years old. And i have never had s*x before and dont really care to. but lately for some reason my body just really wants to have s*x and have a baby, and in my mind i really dont want to. i have dreams about having s*x guys wich im not sure is normal for a girl but i do. and im not sure what is going on with my body. is you could tell me that would mean so much thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much for your help:)

Answer 1

Hormones baby, most of the time its a ***** but control it.

Answer 2

Your hormones are kicking in and you are turning into a young lady instead of the little girl you used to be.  s*x dreams and all the weird body sensations are normal.  Your brain CAN over ride your body's desire for s*x.  s*x can wait until you are old enough to have a long term committed relationship with a worthy young man.

Answer 3

okay look..

as for the desire to have s*x, it your hormones acting up..

this will continue for a while, so try to find a way to control. and the dreams..they will happen..

and as for a baby..

BE CAREFUL!..

at 16, i wanted kids..and i was just like you

deep inside i didn't want any..but at the same time..i wanted to be a mother..

and just like you..i didn't tell anyone..why? because they would think i was crazy..so i kept it to myself.

so my suggestion is to talk to someone  to trust, maybe your older sister, close aunt, someone you confined in

but don't worry, it nothing bad or anywhere close.

its just another way that you know that you're change..

you're becoming a young lady..

a teenage right?..

so embrace it...make the best of it..[if you can find it]..

and if you don' want to tell anyone..read on-line fine way or maybe even things that you can do that will help you..

because TRUST ME..having a baby at such a young age, will give you that serious reality check that i'm sure you don't want to get..

so good luck!..

and hope this helps!

Answer 4

your hormones are just going a little bit crazy...I think all people go through it at least once in their lives. If it comes to the point where you can't control the urge then talk to a doctor. but until then I think you are a perfectly normal, perfectly healthy teenager!  

Answer 5

congratulations, you're normal

Answer 6

Your just being a normal growing girl who is going through puberty. Soon (if you already haven't) you will get your period. Don't worry about these thoughts...just ignore them because they are completely normal. If you keep having them maybe explore your own body and m********e. Don't have s*x yet! You are way to young.