I am just wondering about this...

Question

If guys come out of the closet at 20 after being straight, why don't people accept that being g*y can be a choice?

Answer 1

We were talking about this not so long ago with a child pyschologist and it's all to do with a person's influences.

For example, a 17-year-old who was raised playing sport and hanging out with guys with the same interests is much less likely to be g*y than a 17-year-old who was raised shopping, reading fashion magazines and hanging out with girls with the same interests.

Answer 2

guys that come out of the closet at 20 were probably not straight to begin with, but with the way kids are in high school, acted straight to keep from getting their heads bashed in.

Answer 3

Coming out of the closet doesn't mean he was straight and then suddenly became g*y at 20.  It means he was g*y all along, but didn't reveal that to others yet.  

That said, being g*y CAN be a choice.  It can be biological, it can also be environmental, or it can be a mix of the two.  

Answer 4

You're right especially in some conservative countries wherein g*y people are being discriminated. Most conservatives are too narrow-minded & are very biased thinking that what they do are the best where in fact they're not. They always think homosexuality as a sin & against God's will. They keep associating it from the bible verse of "God created man & woman" & the story about the destruction of Sodom & Gomorrah.

Just because they are g*y doesn't mean they resent their duties & responsibilities as a man. It just so happens that they have a heart of a woman. Moreover, they are human beings too and just like us, they have feelings too.

Answer 5

If your g*y your g*y you cant change your mind half way through your life cause you fancy a change.

Usually people who come out after 20 years have been made to not be able to live their lives how they want so they have put on an act.